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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2005 21:38

i agree...how many men does it take to find the right one...and where is he hiding... this dating thing stinks
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i agree...how many men does it take to find the right one...and where is he hiding... this dating thing stinks
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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 14:17

PLEASE, don't rush into marriage at 21! I found my soulmate and didn't get married until I was 25. You have plenty of time. Focus on your studies or work (like my wife did before we got married)Trust me, you are beautiful, guys can be short-sited when it comes to relationships. Pamper yourself, draw an oatmeal bath with candles, go shopping, buy some shoes, treat yourself! When you feel confident about yourself, guys will see that! Believe me, it is a turn-on when guys see you believe and love yourself!! Now let the Chase Begin.
PLEASE, don't rush into marriage at 21! I found my soulmate and didn't get married until I was 25. You have plenty of time. Focus on your studies or work (like my wife did before we got married)Trust me, you are beautiful, guys can be short-sited when it comes to relationships. Pamper yourself, draw an oatmeal bath with candles, go shopping, buy some shoes, treat yourself! When you feel confident about yourself, guys will see that! Believe me, it is a turn-on when guys see you believe and love yourself!! Now let the Chase Begin.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 20, 2005 21:44

I see a number of posts from you younger women who are saying that you "want to feel loved". This seems to be a fairly common sentiment among younger people these days. While most humans do feel a need for companionship and affection, there are many more important things in the world than "finding your soulmate" at your young ages. If you feel lonely and/bored then maybe there's a reason for that which should be resolved first. This post is not, at all, meant to be critical. I do understand your very human desire for companionship, perhaps though if you were to examine your thoughts and wants then a viable plan might be to become proactive and take charge of your destiny. Stop just "sitting at the rear of life". Look at your situation and try to find ways you might be more PROductive. Things like getting involved, meeting new and different people, try to make your life better by facing challenges, and etc... Most men are very attracted to a woman who is confidant and incharge of her life.
I see a number of posts from you younger women who are saying that you "want to feel loved". This seems to be a fairly common sentiment among younger people these days. While most humans do feel a need for companionship and affection, there are many more important things in the world than "finding your soulmate" at your young ages. If you feel lonely and/bored then maybe there's a reason for that which should be resolved first. This post is not, at all, meant to be critical. I do understand your very human desire for companionship, perhaps though if you were to examine your thoughts and wants then a viable plan might be to become proactive and take charge of your destiny. Stop just "sitting at the rear of life". Look at your situation and try to find ways you might be more PROductive. Things like getting involved, meeting new and different people, try to make your life better by facing challenges, and etc... Most men are very attracted to a woman who is confidant and incharge of her life.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 17, 2005 21:53

hunny you are 21.... no hurry! just slow down and learn from all the frogs.
haha i can't say my lessons have stuck tho?
sometimes the idea of a dress and a party outweighs the idea that it is susposed to be forever. so be choosey!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 15, 2005 12:24

Richie?

when you post the same thing, over and over, on different threads, it's called flooding, and actually hinders your efforts.

Just so you know.



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Posted on Sat, Oct 15, 2005 12:14

Im a swm/34years old looking for that special someone to fill the void in my life.I am ISO a lady some size who would be my soulmate.Im a romantic at heart.I love long romantic walks in the park with special someone, holding hands and talking. Sitting by the river and watching the boats sail back and forth. A quiet evening by the fireplace with a good bottle of wine, some stimulating conversation and great company what more could one ask for. I am looking for a woman between the ages of 34 and 60+ somone who is INTELLIGENT, has a great sense of HUMOUR and most of all someone who is PASSIONATE, a women who is also SENSUAL not just sexual, someone who knows how to treat her man with the respect he deserves and will get the same in return.
If you a player then keep steppin, just dont have time for the games. I want someone to compliment my life not complicate it. All I am asking is that you "COME CORRECT"



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Posted on Fri, Oct 14, 2005 09:03

Cindismiles,

I don't know the exact count but I'm pretty sure, from my figures it's well over 300 and still counting! LOL

Have a wonderful day!



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Posted on Mon, Oct 10, 2005 21:19

Ahhhhh I agree......but I wanna be married to my soulmate and that requires time and patience so ......

hmmmmmmm now does anyone have a count on how many frogs u have to kiss first???? Would really love to know...lol. smiles, me



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Posted on Mon, Oct 10, 2005 11:16

I want to get married too.

Your church or mine?

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 09, 2005 10:52

Er...this is not a fairytale honey. Don't rush your life away. You'll regret it...

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 19:43

I have to agree with the kissing of frogs before you find your prince. Take your time and see what the man has to offer incase you don't like the total package. I think about marriage but am in search of the right man.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 11:32

reighne said it all quite clearly. I want nothing more than to have my soulmate and marriage, but I'm not settling until I know it's right. I deserve more than I've gotten in the past and if it takes me until I'm 90, so be it! Have a wonderful day people!

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 22:50


xxamielangelxx write:
I'm so sick in tired of looking for my soulmate..I just wanna get married...and live happly ever afater!



Well xxamielangelxx.

Marriage can be nice, sweet, and joyful, but it can also be challenging, demanding, and unpleasant at times too ... like all good things it has its ups and downs. It's best to take your time and find the right person than rushing in just to have someone and get married.

There is a good reason why slightly more than 50% of marriages in the USA end in divorce. You'd best be served by looking for that guy whom you are very compatible with on an emotional and mental level. Then from that move on to dating and eventually marriage if things progress right. In the end that's all we can really do.

Best of luck on your search for Mr Right,
Rodney aka bbanditx79



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 19:10


laurieo write:
been there - done that
i just want to find somebody to go out and eat a cxheeseburger with



Same here! A soulmate would be nice, but a date for dinner and movie would be a nice start!



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 16:11

Bubs: My dear lady - you are hardly old at 42.

Amie: But as for marriage - I'm sure its great, but considering 1/2 of all marriages end in divorce - don't be impressed with a blingy ring and by the fantasy of what marriage is supposed to be.

It's the man you marry and not the wedding itself (I say this because we all plan our weddings from birth ladies... its a fact of life. :D heh) that makes a marriage and I'd like to think that the really good man - the one we want to stand by and encourage every day - is picky and discerning. He is wise enough to choose you! The really good man would not be in a rush to find Ms. Right so much as be a friend and develop the relationship from there, and while it may drive you nuts because you're wanting to move the relationship down the path...keep in mind all things worth having take time.

Don't give up on love and on having romance just to be married. Don't settle either because you only have one life and personally I'd want mine without regrets. You are a beautiful, powerful, amazing woman. Believe it and be encouraged by it. You deserve someone amazing who will love you and love you well so keep your spirits up and keep looking. Be proactive in looking and just be encouraging. There is always hope!

With hopes and prayers for you, Rei



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 13:48


bubs write:
We all gotta kiss some frogs before we fnd our prince...




Shoot.... so is that where these warts are coming from? gee whiz... why didn't you warn me bugsy? lol

p.s..... good to see you my friend!

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 13:15

been there - done that
i just want to find somebody to go out and eat a cxheeseburger with



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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 10:24

xxamielangelxx ...You are so young to be wishing your life away on marriage.
I know it seems like the be all and end at the moment, but take it from this Old Un, It aint!
You are a lovely looking lady, and the right man will come along soon, I am sure...In the meantime? ..Just enjoy the looking,and remember..We all gotta kiss some frogs before we fnd our prince...

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 07:11

While I can totaly sympathise with you, and I know what it's like to be searching, there is something I want to say.

You probably already know this, but please put yourself in front of marriage. Take it from someone who was so scared to be alone that I made a huge mistake, and married someone who...well, lets just say, it wasn't fun.

You seem to be a very beautiful woman, and I am sure you have many great qualities to offer someone. Don't be in too big a rush.