Yes, you are shallow Maria. Just accept it and live with it. It might be the reason why men don't find you attractive. I admit we are captivated by women looks, but it's their personality, heart and charm what makes us move earth and heaven to give them everything that they need and deserve. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder! Once beauty is gone, the heart, soul and feelings are left behind, take care of those and you will get your partner. By the way, all women are beautiful, in their on particular and special way. Is just that sometime, we men are too stupid to look at it. Eventually we realize how wonderful you ladies are, just take a look at the thousands of art pieces, poems, and songs created by us for you.
"I completly agree with your statment and think that peoples responses to this thread have said a lot about the writers hummmm."
Name names. If you've got something to say, come right out with it all. Don't take shots from the blindside, nothing worse than people who can't say something to someone's (virtual) face.
Just my opinion. You all have yours. I have mine. And yes, I'm bitter, I came here to find true love, not to be told that I am not allowed to find it because I'm not attractive enough or not rich enough or not clever enough.
Well guess what? I've got a heart, a hell of a big one at that. It gets me in trouble sometimes but what the hell, I'd rather wear it on my sleeve than be shallow.
The woman who wins that heart may not be driven around in a Merc, may not eat lobster, may not go to the Bahamas on vacation, but she will be loved 110% and treated like a princess when my finances allow.
Lokirook you do have a point. The orignal post was rude and yes offensive. If she wanted to get herself noticed there are better ways. If you think that some of our posts to this were bad think how it would of been if a man was the orignal poster! Just for the record I would be the first to tell you that at times I can act childish, actually I think that is something to that effect in my profile.
this is going to sound like an attack - but so what it seems like thats the point on this thread.
if everyone is so adult and mature here i would think they would be less likely to lash out in such childish ways. team playing against someones outreach. yes, the wording of the first post could be viewed as offensive but it is also a valid post, as is any other post i've yet seen on this site. No post is going to be perfect or the standard setting for posts. for crying outloud its a forum.
I've seen a few guys i find attractive on this site, ive seen many many more that dont strike my fancy at all. as a dating site - and ive said this before many times- looks become something you start to base a little of your ideas off of. this is a site, not real life and you have to look into something else a little bit more to make up for what youre missing.
if anything i didnt view this thread as offensive, but as a way to catch the eye of guys who might not already have looked into her profile and to put herself onto the feild.
y'all need to stop jumping at everyone like elementary school kids round a pinata!
Maybe there isnt any goodlookin men in Florida that are attracted to me probably. I dont know if ive set my standards too high...i really cant help who i am and who i am not attracted to. Most of the guys ive been with have been average looking with a couple of exceptions. Iam just tired of waiting and wondering. I wanna find someone to love. Sue me. lol