TallRapunzel write: And, by the way, "friends" don't delete posts that tell the truth, unless it hurts. I bet it's going to bother some in the garden they can't censure and delete my post here like they did there. Keep flinging it, I'll fling it right back.
AMEN to that!!!! Tall my twinkie...lol
I am a bit of a drama queen, so I don't like to be ignored, HOWEVER, I hate it even more, to have my posts deleted just because they call into question someone else's opinion.
Personally, I would have stayed a member of both rooms up until that happened. I mourn the loss of those friendships, however, Delete my words, and you delete me...
Why can't we all just be friends? Why is it a competition? If we can't get along how do we expect our neighbors, towns, countries to get along? There is a time and place for everything. Let's look at the big picture and agree to disagree and move on.
eyesoblue04 write: Being "flirty" is one thing....we all do it....being GRAPHIC and sending pics and flicks is entirely a different matter...it did not belong in our chat room. They have other sites for that. We were,and am still trying to have a positive, respectable chat room,where people can come in, relax, and enjoy ADULT conversations. We were there when you had a problem, we sympathized, and tried to help if asked. We CARED. To all of you who have abandoned a very gracious/kind/caring person, I'm very disappointed in you all.FRIENDS do NOT abandon or let down the people or person that cares about them. I really hope all of you are enjoying your "chat" if that's what you want to call it.It's a shame, but I guess I'm going to have to "re-evaluate" the meaning of the word friend.
First of all... you keep saying GRAPHIC s*xual talk... that happened ONCE and the person stopped as soon as you said you were offended. I don't know why you can't let go of it. As far as sending the pics and flicks as you called it... that was something done outside the room and had nothing to do with you. As far as abandoning friends, well that's what happened when the original room was closed without any notice or warning to the rest of us. It seems you and Lady were the only ones aware of it.... and most of us didn't even get invites to the new one... so don't tell us we have "abandoned" a friend.
Be honest, you got what you wanted... you got a room to yourself. Don't condemn us for having fun and enjoying ourselves. You are the one that attacked our character .... a "friend" wouldn't do that either. So don't point your finger at us in judgment when you have 4 pointing back at you. I wish you luck in the Garden of Eden but we are quite happy with our new room.... and we know that Gordy won't up and close it without notice.
Both Chats have their place. Not everyone wants to chat about the more graphic side of life. Some people like the lighter side of things some like a little more daring/open chat. Both chats have merit and neither should put the other down. There are wonderful people on both rooms. We should be pleased that there are 2 rooms to choose from. Aren't the differences in us what make us special? Thankfully for everyone I belong to both and will continue to visit both. Love to all.
People just want to have fun without having to watch their Ps and Qs.
My room is NOT an "adult" themed room, it is a room for adults to chat without people spitting dummies out everytime someone may say something a little risque. One person's description of graphic is different from another's.
We could argue about this for eternity but I'm not going to. I wish you luck with your room Pam and hope you get lots of pure and clean people joining.
As a much newer member than most I feel I must comment. I was a member of the room that Ladyluc opend and now I am a member or the rooom Gordy has opened. I enjoyed room one until it abruptly ended with no explination or invitation to the 'new room'. Gordy's room welcomed me with opne arms. It IS a fun place to hang out and chat. I have met some wonderful people. Does it get risque? At times, am I an adult who can handle it yes. I see no reason for people to judge anybody else. It seems to me that is what some of the members of group one are doing. The discussions that seem to bother you all so much I am sure have ended in your room. So please just refrain from commenting any longer. I am quite honestly tired of hearing it/reading it.
Those of us that enjoy Gordy's room will continue to go there and have fun. Those of you who feel betrayed or offended please just get over it.
Being "flirty" is one thing....we all do it....being GRAPHIC and sending pics and flicks is entirely a different matter...it did not belong in our chat room. They have other sites for that. We were,and am still trying to have a positive, respectable chat room,where people can come in, relax, and enjoy ADULT conversations. We were there when you had a problem, we sympathized, and tried to help if asked. We CARED.
To all of you who have abandoned a very gracious/kind/caring person, I'm very disappointed in you all.FRIENDS do NOT abandon or let down the people or person that cares about them. I really hope all of you are enjoying your "chat" if that's what you want to call it.It's a shame, but I guess I'm going to have to "re-evaluate" the meaning of the word friend.
Im a swm/34years old looking for that special someone to fill the void in my life.I am ISO a lady some size who would be my soulmate.Im a romantic at heart.I love long romantic walks in the park with special someone, holding hands and talking. Sitting by the river and watching the boats sail back and forth. A quiet evening by the fireplace with a good bottle of wine, some stimulating conversation and great company what more could one ask for. I am looking for a woman between the ages of 34 and 60+ somone who is INTELLIGENT, has a great sense of HUMOUR and most of all someone who is PASSIONATE, a women who is also SENSUAL not just sexual, someone who knows how to treat her man with the respect he deserves and will get the same in return.
If you a player then keep steppin, just dont have time for the games. I want someone to compliment my life not complicate it. All I am asking is that you "COME CORRECT"