I have to agree with you Sharpy. Most of the men on here are attracted to larger women because they are happy with who they are, they can be themselves and they usually tend to have nice personalities. Who wants to sit and listen to "I'm so fat" "I need to lose weight", "I'm sooo unhappy". If a man wanted to listen to that he would look for a barbie doll type.
Bigger women tend to have bubblier personalities and you can put your money on that most of the time.
As for appearances, well like a bigmac, it feeds your appetite and theirs more for the hands to explore.
Big are a massive turn on for me and if your w/e your much more sexually compatable if it ever comes to that.Big women are walmer and cuddlier to which apeals to the insecure side of men.
Sorry for being blunt!
To me personally, I find that larger women are more inclined to be more intelligent, sweeter, talk better, can carry on a conversation, are honest, loving, and are willing to be themselves more often than not.
There is just some thing magical about a woman who is genuine, loving, caring, and willing to be more accepting of others flaws. It keeps me believing in the faith of people as a whole.
Now a larger woman's body is something that I can get lost in...
Visually, the curves and fluid look of the body just inspire me. The shapes of the body are so impressive, making me love that I'm an artist. Tracing those curves with my eyes is like painting an elegant picture.
Mentally, there is also security in those curves and the softness, security that you could take a hold of her and lean against her for hours and know you were safe. That she'd be there for you. That she'd rub your arm and just let you lay your head in her lap and curl up to her. No judgment, no malice, no questioning...just pure in-the-moment fantasy meets reality.
Physically, the touch, the warmth, the softness, it's all so amazing. So primal yet delicate. Running my hands along a soft woman's body is something that places a never-ending contentment within my heart, even if it's just brief in physical time.
noheart write: OK /I LIKE A WOMEN WHO LIKES THEMS SELF /AND IS HAPPY FOR WHAT THEY ARE.YOU CAN BE BIG OR SMALL IF YOU NOT HAPPY WITH YOURSLEF YOU CAN'T HAVE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.I WAS ONCE ASK BY A GIRLFRIEND DO YOU THINK I NEED TO LOSE WIEGHT .MY ANSWER WAS DO FOR YOUR SELF WHAT YOU WANT NOT WHAT ANYBODY THINKS .WELL HAVE A NICE DAY THANKS MARK
I could not agree more! I love me and I won't let others dictate my existence. I have always believed that if you can allow someone to tell you who you are, you didn't know who the hell you were in the first place!
Ok people.. Im new here.. Im Lisa.. but you guys are funny.. I am pretty chunky and my boyfriend is a bean pole.. lol which looks funny but oh well who cares.. I am one who does not personally really care what someone else thinks.. they dont like how i look, then look away.. lol i am not there to please them.. nor am i worried about any of the stupid rude comments they make because trust me i can make one a thousand times worse but that would sink me to their level.. so blah on them.. better thngs to do in my life. As far as being attracted to one particular type of body, I really cant say that i am. I didnt like that my boyfriend was so skinny when we first got together but we have grown so much together and the more i come to love him the more i love his body and everything about it. So i dunno, life is weird and it will eventually turn out ok so just laugh at dumb people cuz they are pitiful
Everyone will find that they are mostly attracted to certain types of bodies. For some men in particular they really find the curves appealing and the softness of the body sensual.
It's not superficial to be attracted to large or thin people. It's superficial when you can't see past the outside to see the real person inside and in truth large or small everyone wants to be accepted and desired for who they are inside. Not for how they look.
Remember love looks not with the eyes but with the heart.
Why do men love more generous sixed ladies ? I can only speak for myself, and in my case its because the thought of having all that surface area to caress ... all soft and no bony bits....and my first experience was with a very beautiful big lady who was big all over in personality, generosity, and sexuality.. thats probably fixed my attitude since... the thin ones are not a turn on..
All you generous ladies out there .. be who you are !!