I think the smarter Guys like the BBW as they know that they have to be smarter and and more self confidant to be accepted than the skinny girls do. But hey, the less guys that like BBW's the more for me ;)
I started off on here thinking along the same lines as JWDArt however I have since found out that the site isn't what I first perceived it to be.
A lot of people on here are gym fanatics or are obsessed with diets.
If you go out with a girl from a normal sized dating site they don't have to diet or go to the gym or talk about either.
So it's actually turned out for me, not to be a good place to meet big women, but a place where big women talk about going to the gym or about their latest diet and I hate that.
This is why i'm leaving the site in the next few days.
Take care everyone Love Sharpy x
[/quote_message)- i find it interesting that you mentioned that, because i've been on other "normal sized" sites and there were topics on health ...a common misconception is that if you are overweight ...you don't workout or eat unhealthy ...however that is not true ...i am a BBW and i'm physically active, i can run laps around my size 0 niece (she's 25), but i'm still overweight but i'm healthy...i'm sorry to hear that you haven't found what you are looking for and hope you find it in the future ...but know this EVERY woman is different and their personalites would be also ....to assume that the women who post about being healthier is a reflection of all the female members is incorrect...being a gym fanatic is just one part of who she is ....if you like someone it should incorporate everything...just like everyone else you have your preference, so if that does not appeal to you ...move to the next ....i really do wish you the best
I have to agree with you Sharpy. Most of the men on here are attracted to larger women because they are happy with who they are, they can be themselves and they usually tend to have nice personalities. Who wants to sit and listen to "I'm so fat" "I need to lose weight", "I'm sooo unhappy". If a man wanted to listen to that he would look for a barbie doll type.
Bigger women tend to have bubblier personalities and you can put your money on that most of the time.
As for appearances, well like a bigmac, it feeds your appetite and theirs more for the hands to explore.
Big are a massive turn on for me and if your w/e your much more sexually compatable if it ever comes to that.Big women are walmer and cuddlier to which apeals to the insecure side of men.
Sorry for being blunt!
I went out with a BBW fan recently, and upon our first meeting he openly told me he thought that fat women at bars were easier to get into bed, and plied with liqour, even easier.And that he (used to?) pick them up in bars for gauranteed easy casual sex. This is not a direct quote from him, I am paraphrashing,but it's basically, completely and directly what he said to me. He began to explain why he liked BBW's, and then tacked that info on. I was offended he would even say that to a fat face. However, he was being 100 % honest, so he gets major points for that. He didn't even follow me to my car to kiss or coerce me, and was not sexually aggressive in any other way to me. He was just being honest.
I don't think I'll be going out with him again because I was so put off by his comments. But to be honest, I am positive he thought I was unattractive, and dull, so he won't be asking me out again anyway.
To me personally, I find that larger women are more inclined to be more intelligent, sweeter, talk better, can carry on a conversation, are honest, loving, and are willing to be themselves more often than not.
There is just some thing magical about a woman who is genuine, loving, caring, and willing to be more accepting of others flaws. It keeps me believing in the faith of people as a whole.
Now a larger woman's body is something that I can get lost in...
Visually, the curves and fluid look of the body just inspire me. The shapes of the body are so impressive, making me love that I'm an artist. Tracing those curves with my eyes is like painting an elegant picture.
Mentally, there is also security in those curves and the softness, security that you could take a hold of her and lean against her for hours and know you were safe. That she'd be there for you. That she'd rub your arm and just let you lay your head in her lap and curl up to her. No judgment, no malice, no questioning...just pure in-the-moment fantasy meets reality.
Physically, the touch, the warmth, the softness, it's all so amazing. So primal yet delicate. Running my hands along a soft woman's body is something that places a never-ending contentment within my heart, even if it's just brief in physical time.
noheart write: OK /I LIKE A WOMEN WHO LIKES THEMS SELF /AND IS HAPPY FOR WHAT THEY ARE.YOU CAN BE BIG OR SMALL IF YOU NOT HAPPY WITH YOURSLEF YOU CAN'T HAVE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.I WAS ONCE ASK BY A GIRLFRIEND DO YOU THINK I NEED TO LOSE WIEGHT .MY ANSWER WAS DO FOR YOUR SELF WHAT YOU WANT NOT WHAT ANYBODY THINKS .WELL HAVE A NICE DAY THANKS MARK
I could not agree more! I love me and I won't let others dictate my existence. I have always believed that if you can allow someone to tell you who you are, you didn't know who the hell you were in the first place!
LonesomeDove write: Well, I just looked at my profile and I had originally posted another photo along with this one. Don't know what happened to it. LOL!! Lost in cyberspace I suppose. LOL!! I'll try to post another soon. And thanks for the compliment Kewannap.
Well, I just looked at my profile and I had originally posted another photo along with this one. Don't know what happened to it. LOL!! Lost in cyberspace I suppose. LOL!! I'll try to post another soon. And thanks for the compliment Kewannap.
Hey Lonesomedove.... I looked at your profile to see if you had another picture that showed your face. You appear to be a very pretty lady.... so how about letting us actually see your face dear! I would love to put a face with a name.... right now... I could pick your backside out of a lineup! LOL (just teasing sweetie)