Do Women Like Large Guys? Message board

  • View author's info posted on Oct 24, 2005 14:17


    Gordy, I feel you on this one.
    I've been in your shoes on more than one occasion. I've read many of the post on this thread, and find many more people in acceptance of those in our position in this particular forum. I'm not saying this in a bad way, what I do mean is that in this fellowship that we share we sympathize with our own plight and find not only compassion, but even better attraction in those that bear our gifts so to speak, but elsewhere prejudices may prevail and many more might not side with the views of this forum. I've chosen not to kid myself, and am reminded to do so on a somewhat regular bases by those who would be so ignorant as to put up barriers to protect themselves from people such as myself. Those ignorant enough to perceive that I am no more than the sum of my height, girth and or weight. Because for me to have any kind of substance would be unheard of now wouldn't it? Then there are those who have brushed of any remnants of this cloak of ignorance, have made clear the paths that they may hear, cleared away all layers of smoke that they may see, and in many cases this is what they find. (Not gender bias.) Someone who can fill there hearts with laughter, one who lends an ear when that is what is needed most, an arm to hold and shoulder to cry on if needed, one who is gentile and kind yet a monumental mountain of strength when need be. This person may command a room when they open there mouth to speak, yet only need speak in a mer whisper. At this point I can hand you the coloring book and crayons, because this picture is only limited by your own imagination. My point is that ignorance is not bliss, it is blinding yet we will come across it daily, but let us not forget those who have never been blinded or chose not to be blind any longer and rejoice that yes, they do exist. The feedback from these lovely ladys alone brings comfort to my heart. We just need to be a little more patiant perhaps, thats all, but then.......this is only my opinion.
    Gordy, I feel you on this one.
    I've been in your shoes on more than one occasion. I've read many of the post on this thread, and find many more people in acceptance of those in our position in this particular forum. I'm not saying this in a bad way, what I do mean is that in this fellowship that we share we sympathize with our own plight and find not only compassion, but even better attraction in those that bear our gifts so to speak, but elsewhere prejudices may prevail and many more might not side with the views of this forum. I've chosen not to kid myself, and am reminded to do so on a somewhat regular bases by those who would be so ignorant as to put up barriers to protect themselves from people such as myself. Those ignorant enough to perceive that I am no more than the sum of my height, girth and or weight. Because for me to have any kind of substance would be unheard of now wouldn't it? Then there are those who have brushed of any remnants of this cloak of ignorance, have made clear the paths that they may hear, cleared away all layers of smoke that they may see, and in many cases this is what they find. (Not gender bias.) Someone who can fill there hearts with laughter, one who lends an ear when that is what is needed most, an arm to hold and shoulder to cry on if needed, one who is gentile and kind yet a monumental mountain of strength when need be. This person may command a room when they open there mouth to speak, yet only need speak in a mer whisper. At this point I can hand you the coloring book and crayons, because this picture is only limited by your own imagination. My point is that ignorance is not bliss, it is blinding yet we will come across it daily, but let us not forget those who have never been blinded or chose not to be blind any longer and rejoice that yes, they do exist. The feedback from these lovely ladys alone brings comfort to my heart. We just need to be a little more patiant perhaps, thats all, but then.......this is only my opinion.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 09:22


    I myself prefer a bigger man to a small one. I like something I can huggle up with and not feel skinny lil ribs poking me. Nothing like the feeling of being held by a big old teddy bear.
    I myself prefer a bigger man to a small one. I like something I can huggle up with and not feel skinny lil ribs poking me. Nothing like the feeling of being held by a big old teddy bear.

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  • View author's info posted on Oct 19, 2005 05:02


    I think you're a sweetie....
    I think you're a sweetie....
  • View author's info posted on Oct 18, 2005 14:39


    Well Gordie I dont know if its too late to reply to your question..but in my opinion ..size shouldnt matter...heart and character should...for either s*x...but it does seem to matter to some people..I dont understand it ..I never will ..maybe for the younger kids..but by the time you hit your forties..anything can happen health wise..and just life itself..can change and will change people's appearances..I would imagine that is why so many people get divorced or seperate at that age..it happened to me..I always thought it was a guy thing..obviously I was wrong..just be yourself..be sweet...someone will appreciate that ..trust me on that one...I would..its a hard thing to find ...I think it is a valid discussion point ..thanks for sharing...dressedtokill
  • View author's info posted on Oct 14, 2005 05:42


    Homer, Maybe it wasn't the sweats but the fact that you are married that turned her off. Just a thought.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 14, 2005 01:43


    Hi Gordy, defiantly know where you are coming from. im 6,1 over 300 but dont look or act it. havnt had any one comment on not seeing me because im big.I just tell it like it is to avoid that. did have one lady was dissapointed that i showed up after work to go to breakfast in my sweats. oh well her loss I am not to fond of the high maintenance girs or have a problem with everything. maybe thats why she got a divorce in the first place. good luck in the future and hang in there.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 13, 2005 03:33


    Being bisexual would make it a lot easier to get a date.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 12, 2005 11:23



    Theophrastus write:
    To be fair, I think Gordy would have to strike out with a few more women before he tried that option Chublove


    Theo, for once, I'd agree with you.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 12, 2005 03:46


    thanks for the support Chublove but I'm 100% straight.

    Good luck in finding your guy!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 12, 2005 02:33


    To be fair, I think Gordy would have to strike out with a few more women before he tried that option Chublove
  • View author's info posted on Oct 11, 2005 18:13


    Gordy,

    Don't forget, there are a lot of guys who like big guys too! :)
  • View author's info posted on Aug 05, 2005 22:16


    Hi Gordon! Sounds like you've gotten a couple of doses of what I've experienced also. All I know is that I have a lot to offer and would be a phenomenal girlfriend/wife for the right guy. (By the way, thin athletic guys are a real turn-OFF for me. I love a big, tall man, someone who can wrap me up in his arms ... :-)}You seem like a really wonderful man. Please don't give up! God has a plan for you! It's all good! May His blessings on your life abound above all that you could ever ask or think!

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 04, 2005 04:49


    Nothing like laying in the arms of a big man.........wow! I can say that I am truly about substance - - body type is not that important to me. I say "not that important", because let's be honest - there's gotta be some physical attraction to begin with. I've never dated smaller men until recently, 'cause that seems to be all that asks me out - - taller, thinner, and much younger. Strange......where were all these guys when I was there age? Oh, yeah - I was married - LMAO - being the good lil' wifey! If I only knew.....

    GORDY - when you come to the States - holla at your girl!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 01, 2005 06:23


    Musicnut your a woman after my own heart.you are quite lovely,I always wanted to see OKLA.I'm an old cowboy at heart.Yes we larger folks do understand what each other are going through and I do feel more comfortable with a larger woman. to me larger women are just sexier and realy turn me on.I like to look at smaller women and like a lot of them but when I think about hugging or just holding one I just can't see or feel no one other than a larger woman,it just feels soooo right.so tell me about Ok. Eddie B.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 31, 2005 12:52


    Alllright nottwiggy,I feel ya talkin.your absulultly right,I love ya for that statment,thats how its supossed to be but it isn't most of the time,and I think some of us have turned some one away because of the way they looked,even though they had a realy nice personality,they might have made a good mate and we know it but we turned them away anyway. true or not,can we be a little honest?
  • View author's info posted on Jul 31, 2005 09:23


    I will find my Mr. Right one day. I know he is out there some where. I know that I am a good kind caring person and I know that GOD did not make me without making a partner for me.
    So, I do not know what Mr Right looks like just yet. He may be tall he may be short, he may be a size 6x or he may have a 30 inch waste. I will recognize him by the way he makes me feel when he talks to me, looks at me, and touches me.
    Now will all you frogs will line up single file so that this princess can find her prince?
  • View author's info posted on Jul 30, 2005 22:57


    Hey Gordin,man I realy know what you mean,I am a BHM,i'm 6'4'' and 435lbs,I used to have a very athletic build as I played football and I also wrestled when I was younger(profesionaly)so I carried my weight very well,but women just did not like me only because I was big.They loved my personaltyt and I didn't look bad but I was just to big.I love a larger woman,I like to play wrestle and I like to hug,and cuddle but it's was hard for me to hug a little woman,they always felt like they were going to break(even tho I am gentle as a lamb)and making love oh my,there was nothing to caress or to kiss on,in other words NO MEAT!I am a meat eater.but when I try to talk to a larger woman she imeditly shuts down,maybe they think we're to big to do any thing altho that's just not true(I know)so just what is it with us,is it to much like looking at yourselves? I know skinny people will make fun of two big people,i'm sure you all know all of the cliche's.is it to imberrising?or do they want the skinny guys?I mean we all fantisize about that well built person who's great looking,si it we just don't feel normal? Eddie B.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 30, 2005 15:52


    I prefer larger men as well, tall big strong men, ahhhh memories!! Looking forward to whenever the man upstairs sees fit to shine the light of love for me again!
  • View author's info posted on Jul 29, 2005 18:55


    Gordy, you seem like a sweet guy to me! Of course I just love English accents, and a guy who has one gets my attention fast! I've dated guys of all sizes, and I like skinny guys as well as bigger guys. It all depends on the person and how much his voice makes me shiver! (giggle)

    But, even though I love those accents, I've heard one or two guys who didn't have that neat voice I like. So, I think it all depends on the person's entire makeup. Good sense of humor, accent, and how much he likes my two adorable pet piggies and would be willing to move to Florida with me! I can't move because of the awful quarantine laws in the UK and Australia, so I'm pretty much staying here in America. If I met a sweet guy who would be willing to move here or who already lived here, I'd be happy as a clam! He would also have to like the sea and enjoy being in western Florida with me and the piggies!

    So, I think everyone has their preferences, good or bad, and our job, as it were, it to find our match who has all the attributes we want and need to make each other happy! (grin)

    I wish everyone great success in their search!
    Laura...still dreaming of guys with English accents and Florida's white sandy beaches...(grinning)
  • View author's info posted on Jul 29, 2005 05:02


    northerngordon, u wanna date me..lol
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