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Posted on Sat, Jul 09, 2005 09:20

So much the younger, so much the better! lol


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Posted on Fri, Jul 08, 2005 23:10

Tall its a pity you and SingingWillow are on opposite sides of the world !!

Kew its right in what you say about the same life experience, I have found that some younger guys have had NO idea, and I have found a lot of younger guys dont like the hang-ups the younger gals have, thus preffering the older less inhibited gals ...

I have had older man fantasies, but never really acted upon them ... I think the oldest guy I have been with was only 4 years older !! lol .... but really all in all, as long as you gel who cares .... I think Ashton Kutcher has done well with Demi Moore....but she has also done well with him


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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2005 19:19

Like Rockchick, I love younger guys! I've seen guys up to 13 years younger than me. And while I love the energy younger guys bring to a relationship, I have found that they tend to be acutely concerned with getting laid and not very concerned at all with building a relationship.


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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2005 19:00

Let me put it this way.... it's hard for me to be intimate with someone young enough to be my own kid! I want someone who has had some of the same life experiences that I have had and you just can't get that from someone seriously younger than yourself. Besides, I am just attracted to older men. It is just a personal preference.

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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2005 05:42

Well! Now you're touching on a subject near and dear to my heart!

Ever since High School, I've been attracted to younger guys. I went to my Senior Prom with a Junior.

My second husband was 15 years my junior, and we had 15 glorious years together, and are still best friends.

For the most part, it seems that men 'my age' are so..... old. Now, I'm not saying ALL, just, in my experience, the majority.

I like to be active. Enjoy new experiences. DO things. And I'm talking outside of the bedroom. (as well as in.... <>)

But, I'm also realistic.

And, I've had some 'near-bad' experiences. There are some younger guys that think an older, larger than 'normal' woman would be SO gratefull for their attention, that she would demean herself for him.

Sorry. I'm vital. Lusty. Vivacious. Sexy. Intelligent. And WORTHY.

Desperate is NOT on that list.

So, yea, I am a bit hesitant, at first, when it comes to new contacts. (both older and younger)

Once burned, twice wary, and all that.

Lucky will be the fella who can see that, understand that, and have the patience to deal with that.

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Posted on Thu, Jul 07, 2005 04:32

NOT ME !! I LOVE younger guys ... am seeing a guy who is 6 years younger then me, and been with guys over 10 years younger too, I think you guys are fun, and playful, nothing wrong with younger guys with us older gals