I agree... I do not understand men that lead a woman on and she just wonders what went wrong or if something happened to him etc.
I have learned over the years he is just not that into me if he stops calling and I refuse to let a man twist my emotions wondering about it.
Get the book .. He is just not that into you" .. it is a great eye opened and written by a man for women to understand the male gender..
As far as the other posts about informing other gals of men who cheat , lie or are jerks.. Go for it.. I think that is great.. I am sick of lying men who just want to get you in bed and then take off never to be heard from again..
I have to agree here, too. I've only been talking to one guy on here, who seemed very sweet until he didn't call me for over a week. Still, I believe that he is just exausted from working 12-14 hours in the horrid heat down there. I'm still worried sick that he is in a hospital or dead, because he has been so good about phone calls before. I hope I hear from him on the weekend, or I will really be worried sick. (Even more than I am already!) I won't put his name up as some sort of bad person, because he's never done anything bad to me, but it would be interesting to see if he was talking to anyone else and broke their hearts. I hope not. I tend to believe the best of everyone. Still, I'd like to know.
Laura *with hope still in her heart*
I agree in just putting it out there for the other women to be on the lookout... and it is up to them to accept the info or not. I personally think this is a good idea. I would want to know if the man I had been talking to had been playing other women.
I've got some to add...tell me where to sign up! Women should be warned about these people...they're masquerading as singles looking for LTRs but they're really married pigs who need their behinds kicked! ;)
Who decides which people get badmouthed? What are you using to judge by? If somebody is being rude and obnoxiuos, report them. If somebody is just not answering your mail or winks, think it over. Most of you out there are supposed to be adults and to know when to turn the other cheek. It's mind over matter. You don't mind because they don't matter. Why let people bring you down to their level. Some people are idiots because they know they can annoy someone or get attention. If they see they can't get a rise out of you, it ruins their fun. But again, if they are being rude and abusive, report thyem to the site itself and if need be maybe get the law involved.
Classy, that is a novel idea, provided it's not a witch hunt. I believe that some of us have met certain people we just didn't click with, but that doesn't mean they are unsavory characters.
I have met one person, and though he's a member here, I didn't meet him off of this site. He is, in my opinion, a person who advertises himself falsely but because he keeps his story the same, is believable. He's from the RI area, and his handle is ROMAD, or something to that affect.
I also had an odd encounter, via emails with another man from this site, and though he upset me, he did apologize, eventually for being way out of line. I won't mention his name, but if any ladies from the Massachusetts area wish to get in touch with me, email me. My name speaks for itself, "Yeah whooooo"!
WE all can have differences of opinions etc, yet blow me off because of an alleged death in the family, but make time to wink women here. I mean if you arent' interested, be man or woman enough to say so, but don't lie and make up bogus stories. I am a big gal but I'm hardly ignorant.
I think it's good to share the positive and negative experiences, because even while being as careful as you can getting to know someone, there is still no guarantee you are getting honesty and integrity from the party you engage in conversation with.
Classylady... I think that is a great idea... as long as we agree to keep it civil. I mean, let's not get nasty and go on personal attacks. I know they people may have hurt us, but let us not sink to their level.