In the deepest depths of sorrow there is no time....but only you can decide when you are ready to move forward. Perhaps you could make a list of attributes you would want in a potential mate or rule out the traits you no longer want in your life. In my humble opinion there has been too much pressure to find a soulmate. Overused term. I believe that people travel in soul groups. Yet in order to find, you must be able to be out to seen, to see, all that is out there. Baby steps if you need to. It's all on your time, your schedule. Here's hoping for the best. Good luck. Be well. Qadesh