I am a very loving, giving, nurturing, generous person. I"m a great talker, and, an even greater listener. I am considered attractive, and extremely funny. I am a 1 man woman, very faithful and loyal, and, extremely honest! Why is it that men don't seem to want what I have to offer?

flossiemae38>>> i dont know if you have heard this very much. but i actually agree with you. for the most part. i know, i know it is hard to believe that aguy will admit to something like this. but men and women a similar in a few ways. we all liked to be somewhat pursued(not stalked) LOL. it adds some excitement the whole dating thing. i believe that when you have to actually work for something , it means a whole lot more to you . and thenyou will WANT to work as hard as you can to keep it. well that is my little bit on this piece. enjoy

I don't think it's not that men aren't interested, but rather, you just haven't found the right man. I'm not new to dating, but it just seems harder to find like minded people to spend time with, without someone expections being very different than our own.

I haven't given up on the fellahs, and I certainly hope they haven't given up on us gals, but it just seems more difficult to find the right match. And for those who send me winks from other states and countries, it's flattering, but for dating it is almost impossible..unless they live a state away.

Don't change who you are, and NEVER settle..even if that means waiting, still, for the right person to come along. I rather be alone for all the right reasons than be with someone for all the wrong ones. Know what I mean?