ok, so i had been talkin to someone on here for a while, never met her in person cause shes in canada and the whole visit thing never worked out. Well for a while now we had been talking almost everyday and this weekend i had family come and visit me that i hadnt seen in almost a year. I wasn't online to talk to her and when i talked to her on Sunday, she said she thought i cared before but not so much now. She told me she trusted me when i said that i did care, but that same night she had her friend get on this site and send me a wink sayin "send a kiss" and her profile said she was from indiana like me. Well i replied to her friend and said that i would like to be friends with her cause she was close by so we exchanged email addys and she emailed me sayin that she wanted to make sure she wasnt talking to a married man or anything and that she wanted a relationship. I replied saying that I am eventually wanting a relationship but we should start out as friends for now. Well I didnt get a reply from her after that and all of a sudden, the girl i was talkin to said, what's this all about?! as if i had been tryin to hook up with her friend. I told her that I simply said that i was wanting a relationship AT SOME POINT but was interested in being friends with her since she was so close. So basically I was set up and even though I didn't do anything wrong, she told me I was an insensitive dog and everything else... Im definitely done with her and pretty ticked at the moment, but seriously, how are you supposed to ever have a relationship with someone when they do that kinda stuff to you? All of you that I talk to somewhat regularly on here know that I have never tried to just hook up with you or anyone else, but she made it seem like i was only out for one thing. definitely hurts a lot and makes me wanna lay off the internet thing ya know? oh well, i hope you are all havin better luck than me
Skyline - - clearly you are a gorgeous guy - - inside and out - - LOL ! ! Pretty much everything that can be said about the little "email set up". What can be said about someone that plays such silly games over the net? Look at yourself as lucky. Who knows what kind of games she'd play in person... Seems to me she did you a favor.
I'm looking on expedia for a ticket as we speak.... for those ears, I'd walk on hot coals barefooted! :-) On second thought, he's NOT legal.. are you trying to get me arrested? LOL .. Kew, if you want to see me in handcuffs, you perv, all you have to do is ask... ;-) I won't tell if you won't!!!!
Obviously, we're definately a couple of big girls you want at the party..we always make for a great story!
Come here KB... let me slap you! I am so envious! Let's see... tree is still in the box, not one present is purchased, let alone wrapped and I don't even have my list made out yet. Do you make housecalls my dear sweet kind lovable generous special friend? huh huh? pretty please? I'll give you those special ears you want if you do! LMBO .... Kew
so I had an absolutely great weekend... I went to west virginia for a day and got some really great shots in the mountains. It was beautiful... and then I came back home and saw that my Fantasy Football team did really well too haha I know I am such a guy :) anyway, how was all of your weekends?
Just my 2 cents here but...... I agree... if you have not met then you are not in a relationship. Chatting, email and even phone calls are a wonderful way to get to know more about someone but you have to meet in order to know for sure. If every guy online that has told me he loves me, told me he cares and told me I am the one truly meant it .... I would not be here now.........I always tell them upfront that I am dating .... you have to date someone to get to know them and I always tell them they cannot love me without even meeting me.... it just doesn't happen that way.... but hey that is just my opinion.... I have learned from being online for a while now... it is hard and especially when you live so far apart from someone that you are truly interested in but you have to accept that they can meet someone at any time just as you can and then you can decide if you want to cut the ties or continue as friends. Best to all........
Sweetie, you have an extemely valid point when you say that misleading someone is wrong- be it face to face or on the internet. My point is that you can't expect a committed relationship from someone you've never met. Cynical or not, I think that finding "Mr. Right" in another country, on a free website chatting up LOTS of people everyday is kind of like finding a PLATINUM needle in a haystack. I'm therefore not disappointed or angry like the girl in Canada because my expectations are realistic. If you happen to meet someone near you, go out a few times and actually connect- then we it's a whole other topic. THAT'S dating- this internet thing is just talk...Anyone out there agree with me? ~K
Kimi, perhaps you are the one who should rethink internet dating and internet relationships. I would hate to think you are the type of person that would tell a man that you are chatting with that you care for him, made plans to go see him and then started chatting up another guy telling them that you would like to be friends and are looking for a ltr. There is a big difference in telling someone they are a friend and telling them you care for them. How many posts have I read from ladies on here saying we had these long, wonderful chats, he told me that he cared for me, we even made plans to meet, then I find out that he has been chatting other ladies , telling them he is looking for a ltr. All I was saying in my post was to try not to lead anyone on when you are chatting with them, and that I can understand the Canadian gals point of view. As for long distance relationship, they can work out. My one friend married a gal he met online from Austrailia and my other friend married a guy she met online who was from Canada. So they can work out. Anyway good luck with your search for Mr. Right. I hope everyone you meet is honest and upfront with you.
thanks all for the comments, i was seriously frustrated about the whole incident and it definitely helps to have input from others whether they agree or disagree with my point of view. Hey Freysh i love the new pics btw. ive meant to say that for a while! Definitely appreciate your comment too Kimi. Thanks all that commented and keep on by all means! i like reading what people think and feel so keep on commenting and i will talk to you all soon!