some men make us all look bad ! fun on the side

  • View author's info Author posted on Sep 11, 2005 07:57


    ok first off :
    *guys* why do you lie to women ? do you think they are going to jump into bed just cause you sound good? you make life very hard for the rest of us ...lets try something new ...be honest tell the truth ....at least then when you meet someone you realy have a shot at something special...

    *ladies*
    ok first and formost most of us are real it's just the ones who lie and try to get you into bed before getting into your hearts are making us all look bad.....for that i'm sorry and hope you have not lost faith in us as gender.....

    ok with that said why are we here? i hope to make friends meet nice people and maybe just maybe meet a special lady ..... but untill then ~~ lets chat!!!!!
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  • View author's info posted on Sep 21, 2007 17:41


    Lets not forget national stats show that 30 % of people on singles sites are ....NOT
  • View author's info posted on Sep 21, 2007 17:40


    well I was on a free site before and got TROUNCED with names and other things I wont repeat here but One person did say "at least your upfront about it."
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2007 15:49


    Tony, hi there!!!!!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2006 01:05


    simplyhim write:
    ok first off :
    *guys* why do you lie to women ? do you think they are going to jump into bed just cause you sound good? you make life very hard for the rest of us ...lets try something new ...be honest tell the truth ....at least then when you meet someone you realy have a shot at something special...

    *ladies*
    ok first and formost most of us are real it's just the ones who lie and try to get you into bed before getting into your hearts are making us all look bad.....for that i'm sorry and hope you have not lost faith in us as gender.....

    ok with that said why are we here? i hope to make friends meet nice people and maybe just maybe meet a special lady ..... but untill then ~~ lets chat!!!!!

    You mean you fond some that don't??? I'm sorry.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 08, 2006 22:52


    I agree with you .... that has been my experience, starting with my grandfather, father, boyfriends and soon to be ex-husband.....It is an obsession with that thing between their legs, as if that was everything ..... But, I am not giving up....there are a few good ones out there and I intend to live life to the fullest and hope that I run into one.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 07:01


    I have not lost faith in men because some cheat and lie...i believe just as many women do
    Therefore i have lost faith in cheaters and liars....but not men or the populace as a whole...and i know just as many men that have been hurt by lying women as i do the reverse
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 05:18


    Not to put a label on any one cuz..I really hate labels in general but.. From my life experiences so far..I'd say that maybe 90% of men.. Are out for ONE thing and they will do any thing.. Or say any thing to get it.. This may apply to women too I wouldn't know.. But it dose s*ck for the very few decent ones out there..
  • View author's info posted on Feb 16, 2006 23:34


    Welcome to the internet!

    I heard somewhere that 80% of the participants in the average lesbian chatroom were 20 to 40 year old men!

    I still live by the moto 'To thine own self be true!' Heh, I have too, I'm not a very good liar.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 19:47


    Honesty is definitely the best policy, and those who are using big whopping lies, or even little tiny fibs to meet people here or in the real world are doing both the people they meet, as well as themselves an injustice.

    A member of this site contacted me wanting a polygamous relationship. This is something that is not of interest to me, however I do give this guy credit for being upfront and getting it out into the open.

    Posting an old (or altered photo), or trying to be something you're not in your profile or chats isn't going to help anyone. While the truth may hurt... lies in the long run can be way more painful.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 18, 2005 14:57


    Good for you Mary. Nice to see you back
    Best Wishes
    Shuie x
  • View author's info posted on Sep 17, 2005 07:17


    Thanks for the kind words Kew! The reason I haven't posted was because I THOUGHT I rekindled a romance...oh well silly me for thinking.LOL

    I'm just dusting off my britches and carrying on with the business of living.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 15, 2005 03:22


    Not just men, but women lie too. I started seeing an X boyfriend in March. Everything seemed to be going very well and all of a sudden, after seven months of dating, he started ignoring me and canceling all our dates.

    To make a long story short I told him that the way he was treating me was unacceptable and I didn't want to see him anymore. A few days past and he emailed me one of the RUDEST emails I'd ever gotten in my life.

    Basically, he said I was merely someone to have FUN with and that the reason I hadn't been seeing him on the weekends is that he is 'DATING' someone, and everytime we go and should be intimate he's cheating on the woman he's 'DATING'. His explanation was he's a typical h*rny guy and that cheating is bad but having FUN with me is worth it.

    I cleaned up his reply but had I known he was involved with someone else I would never had seen him, much less been intimate. I'm still a bit dumbstruck. What saddened me more is the fact if he is doing this to some unsuspecting person, than more than likely he did it to me while we dated intially.

    I don't want to loose faith in men, because I do desire companionship, but it seems to me that people define dating differently. I can't fathom how it's so easy for some people to lie and cheat. I have always been too trusting and too honest. Those days are over now.

    I am beginning to believe that all the good guys do not reside in New England, particularly in Mass and RI. I wish I knew his handle here, because I also found out he's a member here too. He changes screen names like I change socks, so I'm unsure what he's using now.


    The scariest part is I thought I knew him, and I was so very wrong. All I can say is 'if it seems too good to be true, often times it is.' I still would like to find a friend that I can spend time with, but in the meanwhile I'm just going to sit back and see where life takes me.

    Best wishes to you all!

    M~
  • View author's info posted on Sep 13, 2005 08:52


    You're a sweetie, simplyhim. Hey Girls, one of you younger gals outta grab him. hee-he! Thanks simply, you're a doll.

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 11:26


    What you say is true. I might add that some women are the same way. I think most women and men are here for the reasons you posted. So good luck to all.
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