As I have said before thank you again for the good advice.. You all have taken the time to leave here for me.. How ever I would like to respectfully ask.. That this thread be allowed to die now.. As in life everything changes in time..So dose certain situations a person finds them selves in..I no longer wish this topic to continue..And I ask that you all please respect this..Thanks again Pinkpenguins..
Thank you all for the replys and great advice..Me and him have talked things tho and have worked things out.. I am in the process of trying to lose weight.. But it is for my own health and well being.. Thank you again for all the advice..
NO NO NO!!!!! I don't think you should change who you are for someone! I married what I thought was the love of my life. Gorgeous, handsome, sexy, blah blah blah. And he left me for being too fat! Now, I'm roughly the same size now as I was when we met. I starved myself for several years trying to lose weight to make him happy. Then I got pregnant, my pelvic bone split open...extrememly painful! And due to that, put loads of weight on during my pregnancy. He then left me. You can never change someone....they are who they are. And if you/they cannot love each other for who you are inside...it is not worth it! Its not worth the heartbreak, the tears, the pain, when the relationship finishes. Better to wait for someone who will love you for who are, not what you look like. (Sorry, this is a huge sore contention for me, having lived it.) PLEASE!!! Don't make the same mistake I did!
Pink hun, id ditch this guy, he doesnt even sound worthy enough to be a friend as friends dont talk like that or hide things from each other, call him an aquaintence, and he shud be proud he is even that!
Maybe even one day tell him or others that critasize the weight of a person,that u may be larger but u can lose weight, they are stuck with that face and most probably that attitude for life!! lol whos better off now??
Also, do the fattists never stop to think, what would happen to them if say one day they had an accident and were immobile for quite a while and unable to exercise or even walk, the weight then CAN pile on, or what wud happen if they were disfigured in any way, wud they expect you not to be as shallow as them and stay with them or be vain and selfish and walk away??
Wether male or Female, there has been and always be people that have closed minds! and unfortunately they are the people that end up lonely and bitter. as i have and always say, treat someone as you expect to be treated yourself, none of us are gods, we are human and have from the smallest to sometimes the biggest flaws, but thats what makes us US and we are then unique!!
Same as me. Went out with a lovely man yesterday who made it quite clear how beautiful I was (through the whole time we were together too) and how mad hubby was to let me go. lol!!! I'm not used to that sort of adoration. Yessssssssss this is one for all the BBW!!!!!!!!!!!
I think well and good if you do want to lose weight but realistically if your body shape and size have something to do with hormones/genes/heritage (like mine)then it will be very difficult to keep it off. What life will you have if you or anybody else constantly examines everything you eat?