Hello evey one I have been kinda here and there when it comes to this message bord lately. And I at the moment find myself feeling actualy quite a bit depressed tonight. I have recently gone into another message bord one not made just for bbws. And simply tryed to talk to them about the ingorance and intolarance that we as bbw face on a reg basis just becacuse of how we look. And well let me tell you it dident get me far I was called everything from a meat ball to retarted. And told I should eat the giant chip off my shoulder along with being told I am addicted to food repeatly. Honestly its depressing and on top of other stuff I have going on in my life at the moment is just a bit much. I dont want simpathey or any one to feel sorry for me really.I guess I'm wondering how others deal with such ingorance?? Is it just me it bothers?? Am I wrong about it all are they right?? I come on line to some what escape life to a point any more. And now even this outlet has become tainted with ingorance..
Well, to be completely honest I have to say that if my memory serves me correctly, most people I ever encountered in an open public chat forum are either desperately in need of medication or are already prescribed heavy quantities and just forget to take them when they are supposed to. Also, keep in mind that most chats are over run by kids with smart mouths who wouldn't dare speak to you thusly face to face. The comment about a BBW's clothing is one proof to this point. The medical reference is another. If I were so inclined I would attempt to compare ratios of medical expenses caused by bulimia and anorexia... but what fat illness could I make a comparison with? Obviously I am fat because my body is retarded to the process of burning carbs for energy. Is that a disease? Is there a medical clinic I can go to and lay on a bed and get medical treatment at the governments? expense? How many facilities like this are available to the general public?
Do what I do. Stay away from immature a$$holes.
Oh, and go buy more pretty, expensive underwear. Layne Bryant and Avenue always have a sale on bra?s and panties buy one get one half off lol you might be able to get five pair of undies and two bras for less than seventy dollars and that?s with a coupon.
SquishyErin write: I went for a job interview last summer and the lady who was interviewing me looked at me long enough to register what I looked like, then would not look me in the eye the rest of the time. I mean, am I that repulsive? Jeez.
Nope not at all there's nothing wrong with you Erin there just morons. I've been thu the exact same thing. Or you have to love the one were you put in the application 1st.Then they call you all excited just about giving you the job over the phone. But when you get there suddenly its taken or they have a few more people to interview. Had that happen to me endless times. Also you wanna hear something funny. I had made a comment about how we pay more for our clothes being bbws. Well one of the small girls came back and said. I have no idea were your getting that from bbw clothing isn't as expensive as reg clothing. Umm I'd like to know what planet shes shopping on cuz I pay about 20 bucks for a pair of undies lol...
onthebeach write: Unfortunately too many of the women on this site are self deprecating. Yes there is ignorance, but for the most part there is love in this world. Do not think that every person is looking for someone with perfect proportions. Take a glance at all the people around you. Be proud of who you are and carry yourself accordingly. God bless all
Nope not me I accept myself fully and are happy as I am at the moment. What got me depressed I suppose was the true ignorance and almost hate that the rest of the world seams to have for us. I mean I always knew it was bad but I didn't think it was quite that bad. And all they did was mask there hate and intolerance behind the health issue argument. And how we as bbws cost the government millions in health costs. And how we all over eat and are addicted to food like druggies are crack. It was amazing to see the ignorance sprawled out for the world to see in there words. Well in the end I was banned for going back at one of them I know it wasn't right but hey I'm human too. Now the thing that still burns my buns a bit is I was banned my comments removed. And there's were still there in all there blatant arrogance. Oh well thanks guys always makes me feel a bit better to know I am not alone when it comes to stuff like this ..
Unfortunately too many of the women on this site are self deprecating. Yes there is ignorance, but for the most part there is love in this world. Do not think that every person is looking for someone with perfect proportions. Take a glance at all the people around you. Be proud of who you are and carry yourself accordingly. God bless all
First of all, "normal" sized people cannot understand what we larger people go through so we cannot expect them to understand. I personally don't let it get to me. I am comfortable with who I am and the size I am... if they aren't, then that's THEIR problem, not mine. I am sorry you are feeling depressed. I don't know what to tell you, but you need to put them out of your mind. Never let someone else put their issues on you. Hold your head up and go on with your life. Good luck.