Hello there every one.. I was at the mall yesterday and it was crowded what with the holliday rush and all.. And I had to go into a few shops that were well clostrofobic to say the least.. Not to mention the isles were all over packed.. And well if any of you understand its hard enough being a bbw in crowded places.. With out them makeing road blockes for you to knock over.. And then you gota love when your walking down a isle.. And people stare and gasp at you when you go by like hello.. I'm not the only fat person like 70% PPERCENT or somthing of the usa is "obease".. Any ways I had to get past these people to get to the regester.. I asked that skiney little B*tch like 8 times I even taped her on the shoulder.. And still she ignored me and even the guy she was talking to who could plainly see me ignored me as well.. I cant help but think if I was smaller it be easer to live in todays world.. For some reason it seams your waist size determines how much respect as a person you deserve now adays.. Not to mention the crap you see on tv.. Its some how excepted and encouraged to mkake fun of and belittle larger people.. Hmm if I did that to a black person or any other minority therede be hell to pay.. And ide be called a flaming racest..Makes you think some times ok just wanted to get that off my chest :)
i dont think its about size but about attitude. people are not attracted to people who "hide" or coward down. be bold, dont be afraid to stand out in a crowd. we are who we are darling and we are beautiful. be proud! im not saying that this is the reason for anyone's problem in general but i find that many bbw are afraid to be outgoing and have low esteem.
I can simpathize with ya one that cept ... I'm mouthy people tend not to ingnore someone who's in their face direct eye contact asking a question ..... and skinny people ... i tend to turn around quick and walk the other way and accidently run over them ... hehe. Your not invisible some people are just .... %%%%$#@holes and other mean names. And a picture in your post or profile will make you more .... visible to us at least!
I had an awful experience several years ago in K-Mart. I accidently bumped into the most obnoxious guy on the planet. He made the biggest scene in the front of the store- where many people gathered to listen- calling me fat this and that...Anyway I was embarrassed as you would imagine, but he made himself look like a complete idiot - the more we argued, the more of an idiot he looked- with dozens of people looking on. There will always be fools like that but at the end of the day we will be the ones who will shine through.
I know exactly how you feel that has happened to me on several occasions.Or when you are walking down an aisle in a store and it's narrow and someone else starts down the opposite direction and they see you the look on their face when they realize we might not fit!!
Pink........ I am sorry u had to go thru that too and I hope your New Year is much better and to everyone.... May we all find what we are looking for in the New Year!!! Happy New Year folks!