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Posted on Wed, Feb 15, 2006 17:53

I am a unhapply married man and would like to meet females for discreet fun.



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Posted on Mon, Mar 26, 2012 05:52

your wife is sick yet you won't leave and have cheated on her. thats is wrong on so many levels. I would never ever have anything to do with you.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 06, 2012 07:29

Ha! If only life was as simple as you people think it is...Oh, deliever me from the "holier than thou" folks.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2011 07:25

Those here spouting the flames have no idea of what they are talking about. They have a very closed mind. I don't expect anything will change them so disregard the flames.



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Posted on Sun, Aug 22, 2010 18:59

"some females" --  Female what?  Lemurs, ladybugs, snails, armadillos ... feel me? 

Work on what you've got.  If it's not workable, man up, do what needs to be done and move on.  Don't stay for kids if that is the case.  I'm a teacher.  Please don't believe they don't know.  I see the dregs of horrible marriages in their eyes every day. 

When all that is taken care of ... and only then, come back and do your thing. 

Your respect and dignity will be here waiting for you, in the form of potentially interested women (not females). 



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Posted on Tue, Aug 03, 2010 13:25

Hey Abz I'm still around. Glad I spotted this, made me giggle :-)

I wonder if anyone fell for it?



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Posted on Mon, Apr 19, 2010 23:18

Man .. old post re-dragged up....

JAN63, are you still around??? Am so glad you apologized to all the tomcats, after all, TC would hate to be thought of as a cheater with no morals... sighhhhh.

OK.. gonna go back and clean up the coffee I just blow over the keyboard when I read Jan's post.. Muhahaaaaa



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Posted on Mon, Apr 19, 2010 08:18

I agree that if one is unhappy in a marraige she or he should get out...but... If you are older, the kids are all grown and out of the house... and your spouse seems to lose all interest in intimacy and will do NOTHING about it... things are different. In my case, For years my wife and I built a life together. At first we were like rabbits... had a great sex life, but then after the kids hit teenage, she started losing interest in all intimacy. I was so niave that I thought I could change things. I tried everything.. but counciling... my wife would not consider that - or talking to her doctor. As the years went on, she finally ended all our intimacy. I still love her and want to provide for her, but she is happy in her own world now of bridge and computer games. I cannot change her. She also has a host of medical problems which are bound to get worse. I cannot leave her. She needs me on many levels, but we are not intimate, actually seldom do anything together. So... I am looking for a lady who does not wish to get married, but does want a discreet, caring, devoted relationship involving intimacy. I have thought about this for years before going outside marriage. Once I did, I was amazed. I felt no guilt, had found a wonderful lady, got along much better at home, was not nearly so frustrated, and life was better all around. I can only say that those who fault me for going outside don't know what they are talking about... and have a narrow knowledge of human needs. John



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Posted on Fri, Nov 10, 2006 09:50

hey dud it is better to just get a divorce then to have to worry about it in the long run...because if you get caught she will get rid of you anyway.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 09, 2006 23:44

ntgmfo-I bet your wife is unhappy too, being married to such a weasel!!

Kaz

  


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Posted on Thu, Mar 09, 2006 18:59

I never got why if there so unhappy they don't just move on.. And I don't buy the it's for the kids thing..I came from a unhappy family life.. And belive me theres no point.. all you end up doing is hating each other in front of the kids.. Sad...



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Posted on Thu, Mar 09, 2006 15:04

Umm Why don't you just leave your wife and have lots of undiscreet fun?! LOL Just a thought! : )



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Posted on Wed, Mar 08, 2006 06:06

Just had to add my 2 cents.

I may be a BBW, but I am not desperate enough to consider a married man. Period.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 07:42

Laffing at Jan63 - just gutted that you beat me to it!

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 15:46

Happy? Stay Married.
Unhappy? Get a Divorce..BUT....You do get brownie points fer being honest...I guess.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 12:58

Come on Jan, stop mincing words and tell us how you REALLY feel.....
Nice one x

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 11:34

I've been thinking about my last post......maybe I was a little harsh. I was wrong to accuse this man of having the morals of a tomcat. I have no right to judge or comment on others. Everyone in life has their cross to bear and clearly this gentleman feels he has his.

I would therefore like to apologise, unreservedly, to every tomcat I may have offended with my comments.

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 11:28

Aaawww ladies.....don't be too harsh in your criticism......he's an unhappy, married man with children looking for some discreet fun.
Bless him.....he describes himself as honest, a christian and fun to be with (although his wife may disagree). Says he's looking for an honest, caring and respectful woman.

So ladies.....are there any honest, caring and respectful women out there looking to meet up with a lying, cheating (but christian), sad, married man with the morals of a tomcat?

  


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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2006 18:46

if you are unhappy, you should no longer be married



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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2006 08:43

Wrong site honey..... You will probably get seriously flamed here...