It is beyond me why guys do that. I do make contact to at least say goodbye and give an explanation. I think some of the answer may be that thinking about it enough to write it down gives these guys a picture of how creepy they are being.
Musicnut, your smile alone gives me hope someone is out there for me, too.
I don't think that just because you've been married twice that you don't deserve to find someone. You would think that with all the people that are on these dating sites, we would all be able to find someone. I think part of the problem is that while some of us are serious, there are those that just like to play games. I'm not saying anyone on this site is like that, but just an observation I've come to realize in the past.