well, why do most women on here, dont want to talk to us men, some women are like men , just keep looking, cant say hi, and some women lie too, pics on here not them, explain women, and BE NICE,louis

I'm going to be nice honeybun, It should not be about the looks, but let's keep it real me and you know it's about the looks, but what a shame. Myself I wouldn't care if they was wearing a paper bag, it's not what they look like on the outside they can have diamonds you know where, it's what's on the inside. He or she could become my very best friend or my soul mate, my true friend in the whole world. I'm going to be nice, but to be honest we women feel the same way about you men. I send a wink or a email sometimes I get a response, sometimes I don't, but it's alright it's just their lost and some lucky person gain. I'm beautiful inside and out. You don't judge a book by it's cover, looks can be deceiving. What look good might not always be good. You "Stay Sosweet" Honeybun

I can assure you that my picture is real! I have a web cam to prove it!

Here lately though, my pictures are being "stolen"! This individual or these persons, of which gender I am not certain have been misrepresenting me! I have been able to stumble across profiles with my pictures on them! Profiles I HAVE NOT CREATED! Upon finding the profiles I contact the individual and challenge them to procure more pictures or a web cam. When they cannot, I turn on the web cam and notify the webmaster of the ruse.

So, those of you who don't think that is me in the picture...I can prove it on ya hoo! k a e n d i . g e o And those of you who want to steal my pictures PLEASE DON'T DO IT! Or I will be forced to remove them.

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I know that I haven't replied to a few winks as I've been getting to know someone else at the time. I'm just wary of getting into a situation where I'm chatting to two women at the same time and I start getting closer to both and then I have to choose between them, that wouldn't be fair on one of them.

Hi all......
Toketee........thank u for that info because I wondered about that. I have gotten smiles from some and I answer all but when I look for the history some will show that I responded and some do not.........hmmmmmmmm
they really should fix that huh?
Thanks again for sharing that.......

Let me just remind some of you who have not been here long enough to discover this "bug" on your own.....

This site does not always deliver winks/messages/emails . It's very difficult to tell whether your reply was recieved, or an original message was received. My best advice is to keep trying.

Like many others on here... I answer everything that I recieve... so if you have not gotten a reply, I never got the message. This could very well be your problem as well. *smile*

I wish you luck!

Toketee

Pic here is 110% me all the way. I don't know why I'd pretend to look like these pics. Doesn't even sound logical. I answer pretty much all my winks unless, like someone said before, I'm offended for some reason. Like someone asking for dirty pics. Will get no response from me or a real mean one at best. LOL!!

I have to say that both the pics on here are really me. I have those same pics and others on my website, but I can't post the website URL on here.

I usually answer winks if only to say "thank you for thinking of me". Occasionally I don't when I see someone's profile and have no interest in that person, who shouldn't have even bothered to send me a wink when I have put something specific in my profile saying I am not interested in something and they go ahead and read it and then think it won't matter.

One good example is the fact that I have pet pigs. I actually had a guy show interest in me and then tell me the pigs had to go. Of course I told him to have a nice life because the pigs were here first and they are ten years old and will not be disposed of as garbage to suit him. There are a few other reasons I have no interest in responding to someone, as I've stated that I am interested in a serious long term relationship and have no interest in being discreet or getting together with someone local, since I have no intention of even staying in this state for very long.

I do try to be nice, but I wouldn't send a wink to someone wanting something I can't offer, and on the occasion when I first joined and wrote to many people, I never got responses to a lot of my emails and winks. Most guys will not respond if they aren't interested, even with a simple 'no thanks'.

Some of that could be that they can't answer your wink unless they are a paying member and can drop you a note or if you write to them and even a non-member can respond to that note you send them.

I do try to be nice most of the time, but sometimes it does get frustrating when some people just assume that because they liked my profile and pic I am going to just adore theirs. Sheesh! I never assume anything. It never bothered me if they didn't write back, I just figured they weren't interested and moved on.

Well, I answer everyone who contacts me. And as far as my pictures go, well they are me... I have met some people from here and they can attest to that. As far as lying goes, I cannot stand to be lied to so there is no way I would lie to someone else. I am open and honest 100% of the time. I don't feel the need to lie... besides, the whole point of me joining this site was to meet someone and why would I want to start that potential relationship off with a lie? Believe me... I am the QUEEN of being lied to... but I believe in the golden rule... do unto others as you would have them do to you... therefore, I want the truth so I give the truth.

Okay, I just reread your post. I can assure you the my pic is the real me. Trust me if I was going to use one that wasn't me, I would have chosen a much more attractive woman's photo to use.

I can only guess why someone, man or woman, would use a pic that's not them. 1 Maybe they are ashamed of what they really look like, perhaps that pic is them, but it's so old that they no longer look as good as they do in that particular photo they chose. 2 Maybe they are players. Just because they are women, don't mean they are angels. I could name a lot of cruel, abusive and psychotic girls that my younger brother dated. And ironically they were all plus size gals lol All except his first girlfriend.

There are good people out there, but there are also bad people out there, who enjoy playing games. Oh just thought of another one. Maybe they are married and didn't use their real photo because they don't want to risk their husband, co-worker or friends, family finding out?

Yes! Finally a guy who's posting a bad experience he's had looking for a nice woman! Not that I'm glad you're having or had bad experiences finding a nice lady, but I'm glad you posted.

Speaking for myself. Do you mean talking on the phone? Or in messenger? Or in general, why don't women email or wink or reply to your emails?

I for one reply to emails and winks. Even if I'm not interested. Unless I'm offended I'm always interested in at least friendship. I'm not only here hoping to meet my potential partner in life, but I'm also looking for platonic friendships.

I can only tell you what I would and wouldn't do. Can you explain a little more, about your experience here or elsewhere?