I don't understand why there is such a large number of men who do not have a pic posted.
Maybe you can't wow us with your face or body, but maybe you could with your brain.
I know we all want to be loved for who we are inside. What we think of ourselves within shines through to the outside. To expect someone to be attracted to them just for who they are doesn't understand the fact humans are animals like any other animal. There are certain things they are attracted to. Maybe you got what I want, but with no pic how can I know. Post it. The one you communicate will see it eventually, I hope.
Otherwise, why are you on here.
zedbra, i got chatting to you. but you dismissed me like a piece of rubbish. if you treat people this way then im not surprised you don't have anyone chat to you. i was hoping to get a good relationship going with you, but because you are so negative you instantly took me opening up to you as a personal dig?? because you didn't like what i was saying! and that wasn't even in the dating context it was just as friends! i would suggest lightening up and you might get a few friends!
Thank you ladies for the complements and if you will come a lil closer I will tell you a secret. Come on in..... Just a lil closer..... (Whispering)"Love overcomes everything including distance if it is true." but I do understand what you are saying. Isn't it odd that when you find a chemistry with someone where you feel your heart beating just a touch harder and faster than normal there is always something silly like distance in the way? Not meaning with me but just in general as I know that we have all been there. It reminds me of visiting someone you love completely and you wake up on the last day there before you have to leave and you feel that lil bit of dread. It is almost bittersweet as you are happy to still be there but sad to know that you will have to leave soon. When you think about it too much your pulse races as you try and think of a reason to stay. LOL !!! Someone help with this time-space continuum thing will ya !? Cheers !!!
I do respond to ads without pics as long as they are well written and don't go on about how they like large breasts.Duh,what BBW doesn't have them.But I digress.
Anywhoo,I usually read the ad then look at the pic.I have a pic posted so I exspect you will send one to me if we start e-mailing.
Oh,pic tip: Do not show a pic of you with your ex lover.Major turn off.
Is it my imagination or has everybody I contact stopped writing me?
I contact them and then after a little while they fall off the face of the earth. I understand if you get frustrated in contacting me. I'm an optical lab tech full-time and a comic book artist part-time. The part-time thing was started 6 to 8 months ago. Even so, all I have to say is "wha' happened?" If there's anyone in the NY area or anywhere nearby who wants a slightly used, husky, nearsighted (I wear contacts), comic artist/lab tech, contact me anytime (I am housebroken so please adopt me). By the way, I don't know about you guys, but even though I've placed my picture (OKAY... SO I DON'T HAVE THE GREATEST OF FACES) in my profile, IT'S NOT HELPING. Just keep trying to contact me even though I can be an insensitive slob. I will appreciate any who do contact me. Hope to hear from you.
Hard to say but I think that some are doing it on the sly, some don't think that the ladies will be interested and some are probably just not computer savy. Got mine posted cuz even if they don't like the way I look I have enough humor to overcome the looks. LOL !!!
Intoxicating sounds of exotic music
swirl throughout the room.
Outside, the clamorous rain descends,
beating rhythmically against the windows
and somehow magically blends in
like another mystical, musical instrument.
Silently, a small army of scented candles
send the sweet aroma of vanilla into the air
to slowly drift to the far reaches of my room.
Well behaved flames of a loving fire gently
reach out from the confines of its stone hearth
to warm a cozy bed laden with overstuffed pillows.
The flickering candle light wavers
and dances playfully on your smooth hide,
highlighting the erotic curves of your uncovered body.
Laying in a virtuous embrace, we are close to one another,
completely relaxed and free of any unchaste motives
other than to just absorb the essence our being together.
It is now??when we are together like this,
enchanted and lost in purely enamored emotions,
that I know, without a doubt, that our souls have united.
Should ever we part and our souls must separate,
they will always retain remnants from the fused embrace.
I normally post my photo on these sites but it makes no difference. People don't like what I look like so they just ignore my adverts. If I didn't post a photo then they probably still wouldn't write but maybe I'd have a better chance? Although if they wrote, then I sent my photo after a few emails, they'd suddenly stop writing. That's happened to me many many times. Of course in reply to posts such as this, girls always tell me how nice and sexy I look. It's just lies though, they are only being nice, which doesn't actually help me in the long run. Of course I'm open to be proved wrong! It won't happen though.
I cant agree more.....when I am chatting with someone...it seems I have this preconceived notion of what someone looks like...I dont know why that happens but it does. I would MUCH rather have a pictue of someone so I may correlate the two....I am not a shallow person, But I do like to know who it is I am visiting with...JMHO