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  • View author's info Author Posted on Jul 25, 2006 at 03:30 AM

    ive got diabetes type 2 diet only why have i wrote this here goes as a side effect men dont get an erection anymore we have to take a tablet called viagra thats ok no problem,yeah right if i get to know someone i tell them from the start what ive got to some people its a big deal to some its not,im me paul just a guy wanting to find love i put up with diabetes good and bad days i dont want sympathy just for people to understand there is more to me dont run for the hills because my little man dosnt work.this is the 21st century not the dark ages i deal with it,dont let it be a problem getting to know me theres more to a realationship than just sex,at least understand how we feel .
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  • View author's info Posted on Sep 27, 2006 at 09:22 AM

    OK Paul, lets be real here. Of course there's more to a relationship than just sex, but sex is what makes the difference between a romantic relationship & platonic friendship. I give you emense credit for your honesty & openness though. That means more than almost anything to me. But you're a human being, & you need sex. You just have to find the thing that works for you & if Viagra is it...keep that script filled baby & you'll be just fine! A genuine woman who is attracted to you will admire your openness & probably enjoy finding something that works sexually for both of you :o)
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 30, 2006 at 08:11 AM

    in this day & age why are people so judgemental, we all have our faults and traits to bear.
    theirs a lot more to a relationship than sex, getting to know each other can take a lifetime
    i wish you luck manmountain if a women dosent understand your condition shes not worth knowing
  • View author's info Posted on Aug 02, 2006 at 03:22 PM

    Hi Paul,
    Was i one that didn't understand?
    you are one nice fella, and some lucky lady will get you..and love you for who you are, Love Shelil x
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 31, 2006 at 12:21 PM

    Your honesty is such a rare quality, dont feel bad about yourself! Most guys just want to meet for sex, so someone who wants to know me as a person gets my approval. Like all the other ladies have said sex is just one part of a relationship theres so much more to a person than what they can do in bed!
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 30, 2006 at 07:20 PM

    hi paul! there is sssoooo much more to a relationship then just sex!i applaud you for being upfront with the ladies, and, to the ladies... your missing out on some great snuggle and talk time. i would much rather have those times, dont get me wrong, sex is great, but its just NOT that important in a relationship! you sound like a really sweet guy, paul, so dont worry, you'll find a ladie thats interested in YOU not just having sex with you
    love nikki
  • View author's info Posted on Jul 25, 2006 at 03:40 AM

    Paul sex is not everything in a relationship. The comfort from just holding someone can be so rewarding. Keep heart I am sure you will find that special someone, I tried but things were not right.
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