Can any one please let me know what i am doing wrong on this site i am your average women looking for a nice guy not to hurt me to go out to dinner with maybe even weekends away but it does not matter what I do or how many smiles i send I do not seem to be able to met anyone can anyone adivice me PLEASE on how I may achive this just one nice man to email with get to know each other and start some thing special thanks all Lynn

Well, I have chatted with a man there in your area (just as friends) who seems to be a nice guy... check him out.. stumpy45

I would just say to keep your chin up and keep trying. I always try to remember that sometimes it takes a little time to build something with someone and that if I don't give that person a chance then I might be the one missing out on someone very special. Sometimes you feel it from the first moment... but sometimes it takes time. Hang in there, smile and he will come.

Do you send only winks? I sent winks out all over at first and got only winked back or bookmarked or unrepeatable messages. Found that sending accual messages gets better responces. also staying in your area if possible ...I think also maybe men are afraid of rejection too-same as we are. So try maybe some other techniques with questions to maybe draw someone out...Don't I sound like an authority??LOL..So why was I sitting home last night?? Anyway hope my suggestions help!! Let us know.