I too would like to find a nice gentleman that would respect me for the woman I am. I have about decided I am too "old fashion" for the men these days; evenif I am I will not lower my standards just to have a special fella in my life. I don't understand how anyone can "Make love" if they do not care for the other person. I know I am a BBW and not a gorgeous but I do have emotions and feelings. I know I am a good woman and would treat a gentleman well. Said gent does not have to be rich, famous,or handsome. He must be at least 45, caucasion and self supporting.
Someone posted that I should try Christian sites. Is going to church a bad thing? Just like good people in a good community setting. Positive here! I'm trying to not make the same mistakes, and I've found that if you don't walk in the Spirit, well then, no matter how hard you try, whatever you build in your relationship is just "sinking sand" like my former marriage.
I came to this site because I like bbw's. And I will find the right one God willing that I can treat like a queen.