I too would like to find a nice gentleman that would respect me for the woman I am. I have about decided I am too "old fashion" for the men these days; evenif I am I will not lower my standards just to have a special fella in my life. I don't understand how anyone can "Make love" if they do not care for the other person. I know I am a BBW and not a gorgeous but I do have emotions and feelings. I know I am a good woman and would treat a gentleman well. Said gent does not have to be rich, famous,or handsome. He must be at least 45, caucasion and self supporting.

I think it was a suggestion of something you could do as well, to give you more options. Not in a "leave here and go there" kind of way.

I think you'd have better luck on a Christian site because "walking in the spirit" is something of a niche.

It's not like someone who likes blondes but would still go out with a brunette. You either walk with the spirits or you're likely to be weirded out by it.

In that respect you're quite similar to people who enjoy bondage and an S&M lifestyle. It's not for everyone.

If the main thing you're looking for is a relationship with another church-goer then go forth and find a website that specialises in church-goers.

Someone posted that I should try Christian sites. Is going to church a bad thing? Just like good people in a good community setting. Positive here! I'm trying to not make the same mistakes, and I've found that if you don't walk in the Spirit, well then, no matter how hard you try, whatever you build in your relationship is just "sinking sand" like my former marriage.
I came to this site because I like bbw's. And I will find the right one God willing that I can treat like a queen.

Good luck in your search!
You might try the Christian dating sights since you want someone to go to church with you.

Wow.... you don't waste any time do ya? lol... I hope you find what you are looking for sweetie.

Kew

Well gota admire him for getting right to the point lol... Good luck to you by the way..