I understand what you are saying. I dated one man here in Washington and he paid for dinner and you know what he wanted me to pay him with. Sent him packing back home. I am just or think I am corresponding with a nice person. We will see.
Lady I have to pipe in too, you do look a bit like Charo (all her good qualities). I can't believe you are 52 - you look amazing.
No, I really don't think there are any good men in Washington. At least none I have met who really want a relationship, it seems they just want a booty call and that's it. I have kind of given up a bit (still keeping my eyes open). But I adopted a cat and got Netflix and told my friends we need to do more things together. lol. hee hee.