I cannot speak for anyone else, but I am still a romantic. I love cuddling, kissing, walking hand in hand, doing the little things to let the man in my life know that I appreciate him. You know doing something just because....and not for any specific reason. I also like those things in return, which I cannot seem to find. Romance will never die for me....as I continue to search for my soulmate.
I am actually pretty romantic. I have never had a guy try to sweep me off of my feet. I think men only do that for thin women that they want to impress their friends with. It's not a good thing or a bad thing, its just the way it is.
krazyiiiiz I am a romantic, so in answer to your question there are.
I think what happens is that so many people ask for things and than when the person arrives at their door, they are to busy taking inventory before getting to know the true person.
I see you live in Brooklyn, I live in Queens, you want to talk feel free.
Ok, I gotta tell ya about the pic thing. When I first signed up here, I was just curious. Then I started getting a lot of requests, so I decided to put some pics up. I had to do this at work (there's a good reason for this, trust me)and the scanner here was set up by our IT dept. So when I scanned them, they accidently went to one of those guys as well as my email!!!Man, was I embarassed! Also, this is the reason my pics are so small. The scanner here is not great and I'm not exp. with using it. I could also get fired for all that, so I see why people have a hard time putting their pics up sometimes. Like some of y'all said, I go for a guy who looks compatible with my personality. Then I'll ask for a pic. Looks aren't everything, but personality is!!
Kevin Costner, Nahhhhhh, Steve's better looking than that and has a better a$$!
Mind you, he swims like a fish so a part in Waterworld 2 would be perfect for him.(Skinny dipping and the long swim to me has made him this way, check behind his ears if you ever meet him......LMAO)
I have had some ladies who sent me pictures when I asked. And it wasn't like a perv thing, it's one of the winks. I am shallow though and when asking people for a pic but they don't acknowledge the request, I tend to ignore them. Shoot me.
You always have a way of making me laugh.
I agree... some people simply dont have the means to post a picture. Still some choose to NOT post a picture for their own personal reason's and that doesn't always mean they are married or hiding from a partner. It's not for us to determine these reasons.
Yes, having a picture up does make it much nicer, but it certainly isn't a requierment. I have also met in person a few guys on here who do not post pics. They all turned out to be very nice, good looking gentlemen who each had their own valid reasons for not posting.
It's also true that those without pics take a chance of not getting as many inquieries, but this is the choice they make.
Cut the people without photos some slack folks. I was on one site and it took me almost two months to post a pic because I didn't have any. I don't take pictures of myself because I don't really want to see me all the time. I can only take so much coolness. Not everybody has a digital camera or they may be so cool like me that they don't own a computer. I think we all just need to stip down and have a big hug. Who's with me? I'll hold your tops.