Why is it, ya find what you think is a nice guy on here...he gives ya his home phone number, and cell phone, talks about meeting, but then half the time ya try to call, he's on the internet,lol, then he gives you a day to call, so ya can get together that day, and again...you call, and keep calling, and he's on the internet again, when you'd think he'd be not wasting time online, and actually meeting you in person...beginning to think some men prefer the attention of many on internet, then finding something thats real.

Run and run fast. That's a red flag to me. If he isn't gentlemanly enough to honor his request, then something's going on.

Some are addicted to these dating sites. They're looking to meet any and all BBW's they can. Not all though I'm sure. I'd say that's a red flag though. Doesn't mean he's not a nice guy. Just means you probably don't wanna get hooked up with him.

Some people just like to talk with someone but never meet. It used to bother me, but not anymore. It's like penpals. I have a couple friends that I met over a year ago but have never met in person... and never will. There were times we could have, but it never happened. We chat occasionally online or email, but I know it will never be more than that.

Then I have someone that is far away that I communicate with. I know that if we ever can, we will meet. The not meeting is not because we don't want to, but because of distance.

Just accept that he obviously is not wanting a real relationship right now or he'd be doing whatever he could to connect with you. Move on, dear... there's someone out there for you!

Yup that spells player through and through ....

I say that he is not such a nice guy after all. Don't let him waste your time, hun. He isn't man enough for you.