I think there is more going on here than is any of our business. I think we should take his side into consideration as well..... as he has posted it in another post. If he was such a butthole, would he have even bothered? most buttholes I know just tuck tail and run.... just my opinion.

Well there are some v nice ppl (guys as well lol) on here ive met and are friends from all over the world, so one warning from someone (and v much appreciated) so not going to stop me from continuing to contact ppl.

kat>> that is a great attitude to have.. i will leave you with this.. remember to keep smiling , you never know who is watching

Kat thanks for warning me. Well at moment he is known as Coogar and dropped me an email over the weekend.

Be warned all

Kat is that the same one who calls himself just Coogar now?

Kat, thanks for having the courage to post about this man. I am sure it will make us bbws more aware, I know I will be. There are some really nice guys on this site, but there are alot of jerks too. Keep the faith!!

Kat I am so sorry you got "F'd" over. I know it hurts. All my life has been like that it seems. I keep hearing that there are good men out there but I have yet to find one. Don't give up. I have been alone for several years now and I still think I will eventually find the right one.
hey.. I have gotten a few winks and some e-mails... one or two were from nice guys and the rest were from A$$holes that probably wouldnt even respect their mamma. However, just remember... people like him usually get what is comming to them sooner or later. It's a shame though that men like him make it harder for us to find the good guys.

we are here katcan, it is just some of the guys out there are a$$ holes and they make the rest of us look bad. just remember not all of us act like this. there are actually guys out there that respect a woman and know how to hadle themselves in the proper way. keep your chin up, you will find what you are looking for .