Is it not cheating when a wife, at about age 45 just ends all sex between her and her husband... and will not do a thing to work with him....understand his needs... or why she has lost the urge? And... other than you unyielding hard liners... what the heck is so wrong in a man and woman engaging in sex as long as they are very responsible about it... not promiscuous, and very discreet. Let me say that as long as there are children involved... yes... no going outside marriage. That is bad for the whole family, but after the kids leave the house... the frustrated spouse can go outside and such a move will likely strengthen the marriage back home. It surely did for me. Sex is a physical activity... not something carved in stone. And don't you religicos go telling me that YOU know what is right and wrong. It may be that your GOD just doesn't exist and your argument is totally false. You never know about a persons personal situation. There may be good reasons... that actually benefit the marriage.
Thank you Jilly. My late wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer's when she was 50. I took care of her at home until she passed away at 61. My new wife is disabled and also is afraid of having orgasms [severe migraines]. I would like an encounter with someone but I will not change my marital situation. Thank You.
Personally, I find infidelity to be disgusting. If you took the vows to love, honor, and cherish having an affair (or multiple affairs) only shows you have extremely poor character and any self-respecting woman should kick you to the curb rather than shack up with the likes of a bed-hopping, unfaithful creep.