June ... unfortunately you are more likely to find a POLAR Bear in the desert than an honest man ... thats not all of them of course, but a lot of them .... and like you, I would prefer the "you just dont do it for me" speel than the BS that gets spun !!
Trust me sweetie.... having been there and having been told that he loves you for who you are on the inside but he is disgusted by your body..... those words are NEVER easy to hear. He is only trying to save your feelings by telling you he met someone else... either way... he obviously wasn't the right one and he's gone.... without you having to live with those words the rest of your life. The sadest part for me was..... I heard those words from my husband. Although I am VERY comfortable with my body, those words still haunt me two years later. Just be glad he is gone.... regardless.