I just stumbled across this topic. My roomie is a GREAT guy, gay, bear-ish (BHM). He has been looking for years for another guy for a long-term relationship. I told him about this site but he tends to stick to gay-only online singles services. I'll have to make him read this topic, maybe it will help change his mind.
Well said. That night I had a little to much WINE. Just finished correcting papers from my one of the classes I teach - Medieval History. My students are driving me to drink - a short trip indeed. I sort of reminded myself of Dudley Moore when he played Arthur.
I know the feeling - me too. I am sad because I seem to be getting no interested parties here too. It's depressing, but oh well no point whinge. Maybe I'll go out buy some cheese and it will along with my whinge :-)