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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 15:33

does a "date" consist of the bloke constantly checking over his shoulder, rushing the meal or insisting that we "go back to his cos it's more comfortable" funny how i get the feeling that being seen with a larger lady makes him nervous in case he's spotted by anyone he knows! it's always been "WHAM, BAM, I'LL CALL YOU.....!" (and that never happens!) makes me feel like a proper minger! think i'll just start using an es@ort agency in future....where did i leave the yellow pages??

  


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Posted on Mon, Jan 30, 2006 14:26

Cathii write:
WoW hula, maybe his * insecurity * was coz the guy you were shagging was your best friends b/friend, and funny what cheating will do to a person. Good that you can throw weight in as an excuse!!! Time to grow up lovey.


no need to be catty mate, this was posted back in july.....BEFORE i shagged my mates bloke, but thanks, i appreciate the thought that went into your post. x



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Posted on Mon, Dec 19, 2005 17:51

No worries Bubs... I'm from the states and I don't understand!

  


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Posted on Mon, Dec 19, 2005 15:55

It means he wants to sleep with her bubs... as best as I can tell.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 19, 2005 15:48

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To nycbbwlady , I want to get to know you better that really over the web. I from boston and I want you to give me a holla when you get the . Because, I really think you are f...ing cute and I want to know (can I have you ?)if so hit me up and hit me up hard and good(smile) and I will make sure I call you alnight long and thin some.

Umm...can someone translate that message for me? LOL

  


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Posted on Thu, Dec 15, 2005 08:02

To nycbbwlady , I want to get to know you better that really over the web. I from boston and I want you to give me a holla when you get the . Because, I really think you are f...ing cute and I want to know (can I have you ?)if so hit me up and hit me up hard and good(smile) and I will make sure I call you alnight long and thin some.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 12, 2005 14:12

HEY HULA,
I AM ALSO TIRED OF THE NO CALL AFTER THE "I CALL YOU" COMMENT FROM THE MAN WHO OH SO LIKES A LARGE AND LOVELY LADY.
HEY GUYS JUST STOP THE GAMES AND BE HONEST.

  
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Posted on Sun, Dec 11, 2005 15:29

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does a "date" consist of the bloke constantly checking over his shoulder, rushing the meal or insisting that we "go back to his cos it's more comfortable" funny how i get the feeling that being seen with a larger lady makes him nervous in case he's spotted by anyone he knows! it's always been "WHAM, BAM, I'LL CALL YOU.....!" (and that never happens!)


I have been there. No man gets a taste until they have showed me off to their friends and family. If I feel respected, and there is a connection then I might give out a small slice. A man who is just trying to get --some-- will disappear when it becomes clear that you will put him through his paces. Good Luck, hulahulafairy! Don't take any nonsense.

  


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Posted on Sat, Dec 03, 2005 18:09

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lol, men pffft :p


Sarah...so young and yet so cynical? Wait until you're as old as me and THEN you can say PFFFT! to men lol

  


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Posted on Sat, Dec 03, 2005 07:18

jackmcmadd ... LMFAO...That paper bag line is TOO funny...sounds like something I would say. ;)



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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2005 14:55

lol, men pffft :p



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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2005 08:18

Hey NUMBERONEMOMMY, When's the GARLIC FESTIVAL?

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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 21:29

hey hula
just wanted to say i believe the guy u were with is a complete tw** hope u ok i think u a lovly loookin woman and would love to go on a date with u any time hun

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Posted on Sun, Aug 07, 2005 09:06


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hey Hulahulafairy,
sounds as if your bloke may have been looking for others he might know , because he is married.

I think you may have been right! I'm so sorry you were treated so poorly! I am confident that there still are nice guys out there! Don't give up!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 02, 2005 13:51

Keep Yhe faith hula,Were not all like that.

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Posted on Tue, Aug 02, 2005 11:18

ooh, you know, my ex would do that. It wasnt that he didnt like being seen with me, but i think it was just cause he wanted to 'cut the crap' (or, decided being civil wasnt mandatory) and just do what he was really looking for instead. didnt make me feel like the best of people. Maybe i should have charged him ;)



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Posted on Thu, Jul 28, 2005 11:21

Hey Hula,

That bloke you were with was no gentleman, sounds like a real jacka$$ to me. You are a very pretty woman, who looks like a very happy person. Forget about this jerk, you surely deserve better tha's for sure!



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Posted on Wed, Jul 20, 2005 09:56

"hi have always been a lover of big black beautiful women , i would love to have one of any race to be my girl friend and hopefully my wife.
I'm 34, ssbhm brown hair, green eyes with glasses. I'm disabled & Diabetic enjoy movies, going out, long walks, cuddling with that special someone.
if your the big black beautiful women that looks at the inner person



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Posted on Mon, Jul 18, 2005 17:16

Hey hula,
Sounds like you landed a total basket case for a date, either that or he had a nervous twitch. What you need is a decent bloke who knows how to treat a lady. But just in case you land another dipsh*t, next time you go on a date put a large brown paper bag in your handbag, if you get treated like that again, take out the brown bag, put it over your head and in a really loud voice, say "is this better?" or if your feeling really vindictive, offer the bag to him and again in a loud voice ask him to cover up, as he is putting you off your meal.
Teach the swine a few manners...
best wishes and good luck



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Posted on Fri, Jul 15, 2005 16:27

hey Hulahulafairy,
sounds as if your bloke may have been looking for others he might know , because he is married. I have found so far , that the men here genuinely do love BBWs, more so than some of us luv ourselves! Even though I have come across more losers than winners, I'm not giving up just yet. Don't let that loser keep you from finding your winner! Good luck to you!



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