ahh well finding him can be traumatic and when found him how do you know its for its the real deal? I personally have had trouble finding that right man, so who can tell!. i know what sort of man that i want, he has to be confident, smart in mental ways, intelligent, passionate, caring and more importantly HE HAS TO DIG ME!. now that is the question!!!!!

Music nut-- You took the words right out of my mouth. Just recently had reality shine. What a disappointment! Just a setback though not a roadblock.

I think the most important thing is to not rush things if you think you're met MrRight.

So many times we get caught up in the initial emotions of someone caring for us and then as time goes on the infatuation ends and real life begins.

I believe if it's real love... you will love that person even when the flaws start surfacing. That's why it takes time spent together and time learning about each other.

It is just my 2 cents but.... I just have to go with my feelings and if I feel something for someone then ... hopefully they will return the feelings and if not I may get hurt but I still have to go with my honest feelings.... I have to feel what I feel if that makes sense...........
have a great day.....smiles, me

Hey all. Very valid comments and thoughts which have existed for time immemorial. Humans are people with flaws, they lie, they cheat, they can be cunning and they backstab. But they can also be genuine, true, sincere and loving. I guess we all believe we are the latter but we need to look closer at ourselves before we make any committments. I would suggest that one approach a relationship with all ones got but bearing in mind that things can go wrong and understanding that can ease the pain and anguish of break up. Time does heal all wounds but never completely. Yet never let such experiences waiver your belief in love...

I agree all relationships start off good then take a turn. How do we know what signs to look for ? How much should we reveal to them ?