It is hard in this world to find a man who works,that likes heavy girls,and can love another's children.Most the men you meet want sex or nothing.To me it is important to find an good guy ,but he has to be able to love me and be a father to my children.Is that possible these days?

If given chance , and see what happens , all men aren't alike

Well I hope there is hope for us as I have 4 children, I'm not looking for a dad for them as they already have one, just someone who will love me and my kids.

Have heart, Le Chat.

My daughter is a big girl (5' 11"+ and 200++ lbs). She was a single Mom with a young son and now is married to a man who adores her and has become her son's "Dad", not just step-father.

He's there for you Lovely Cat Lady, be patient and have heart.