Hey hon.. it's a free world. There are loads of married guys lookin' for somethin' on the side, just as there are married women lookin'. Who's to judge? I wouldn't want it. You wouldn't want it. Just don't wink at him, or chat with him... heh... There are folks who'd throw down in a new-york minute - plenty of'em, and there are those that won't. As long as they are honest - you can't knock'em for doin as they please, just as they can't knock you - this site has no rules against married folks or gay folks or folks only interested in one thing. You don't have to be single to date. Or thin. Or chock-full of etiquette and grace. You don't have to have teeth or hair. You don't have to have sense. Honest. It's no different than goin' out to a club, or a bar, a continuing ed course, or church for that matter. I'd wager that for every person that says "married and lookin' for a lil somethin' somethin'" there are 40 who are married'n say they're single. Live and let live... cos we all want what we want and we're all different! ... Doesn't do you any good to be appalled, or angry, or upset, or put-off .. don't let it affect you that way. He's not in your livin'room and doesn't pique your interest. Nothin' more need run through your head about him. Not everyone is gonna fit your bill. Heck - no one fits mine! ;_)

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Just for the record, there are folks I wouldn't give the time of day just 'cos of the nicknames they choose. But I wouldn't point'n giggle at'em in public (... well.. unless they BEGGED for it.. ) Then I might!