No it isn't you. I think most of us are looking for cute guys, nice guys, bad boys, etc..(not married guys, not guys looking for a roll in the hay)....Good luck.
Unfortunately Ben... many of the posts in the forums by male members are just blurbs looking for fun.
It would be great if more guys participated...Guys you could show us more about what you're really like and maybe attract some winks and e-mails from some cute gals while you're at it. Hint, hint!!