cheramie write: I'm sure there are plenty of non-monogamous married and involved women out there to take advantage of the offer. I just can't get past the cave man style...grunt...me wanna fukkkkk..
ROFL...ROFL...Oh my god...I just about fell off my chair lauging at that one Cheramie!!!!
I THINK I was married to someone who grunted like that. LOL.Knuckle dragger!
I'm sure there are plenty of non-monogamous married and involved women out there to take advantage of the offer. I just can't get past the cave man style...grunt...me wanna fukkkkk..
If they were being hypocritical, they would be having affairs and saying they weren't. I believe you were looking for the word judgemental.
Having said that, however, dude....it's a public forum. Don't like it when people express their disagreement with you? Then either grow a thicker skin, or don't post publicly.
For your information, when this particular forum was started, it was started for JOKES.... the title was just a play on words.... geez.
If you married people would spend the time and the effort you put into making profiles and hitting up single women on the internet INTO your own marriage, maybe things would be better at home. Just a thought. Take it or leave it... I really don't care.
You are all hypocrites. This forum is FUN ON THE SIDE. If you don't want that stay off.There are plenty of other forums on this site.Does it make you feel important to run some guy down because he wants some fun on the side and had the nerve to post it on the correct forum?If your single and want to find a single guy guess what Fun on the side is not where you should be looking.
Even if he were not married and I was not involved with someone...he would not appeal to me.. it's all about the approach..and his suc*ed big time!! To appear without a shirt on a dating site is just classless and crude. Perhaps Adult Friend Finder would be a better place to post pics like that with advertising for on the side se(x).
Even if he were not married and I was not involved with someone...he would not appeal to me.. it's all about the approach..and his suc*ed big time!! To appear without a shirt on a dating site is just classless and crude.
Perhaps Adult Friend Finder would be a better place to post pics like that with advertising for on the side se(x).
1 - The guy is upfront about being maried and looking, thoug he posts no info that his wife is aware.
2 - He posted in this forum "on the side", isn't this what this forum is for ?
3 - I think the wife "disease's" are a sympathy ploy, but who knows... or cares ???
4 - The pic is real... who else would post it.
5 - I'm just glad my life has never s u c k e d so bad I felt the need to make a post like that.
6 - If the post is authentic then I truly feel sorry for the guy as there are so many other ways to make the best out of the situation. I hope he realizes this is kind of thing is really stupid.
-Could be right, could be wrong, I'm in the middle anyway.... name that band lol
What I think about the post:
1 - The guy is upfront about being maried and looking, thoug he posts no info that his wife is aware.
2 - He posted in this forum "on the side", isn't this what this forum is for ?
3 - I think the wife "disease's" are a sympathy ploy, but who knows... or cares ???
4 - The pic is real... who else would post it.
5 - I'm just glad my life has never s u c k e d so bad I felt the need to make a post like that.
6 - If the post is authentic then I truly feel sorry for the guy as there are so many other ways to make the best out of the situation. I hope he realizes this kind of thing is really stupid.
-Could be right, could be wrong, I'm in the middle anyway.... name that band lol
[and I believe the sentiment of 'Walk a mile in my shoes' applies here.]
I have walked a mile in his shoes...for 8 years my late husband of 20 years was terminally ill and unable to be intimate. He was not an easy man to live with before or after his illness but not once did I ever think of straying..and certainly wouldnt advertise for sex! That was my choice..and I understand we all make our own choices.. I am just stating my opinion in how crude I think it is to come on a site and advertise for fun on the side. Admire you for staying with your ill wife?? Maybe you have another agenda why you stay with her....hmmmmmmm
Just my view...when you post your thoughts for others to read.. be prepared to hear various opinions :)
[and I believe the sentiment of 'Walk a mile in my shoes' applies here.]
I have walked a mile in his shoes...for 8 years my late husband of 20 years was terminally ill and unable to be intimate.
He was not an easy man to live with before or after his illness but not once did I ever think of straying..and certainly wouldnt advertise for sex! That was my choice..and I understand we all make our own choices.. I am just stating my opinion in how crude I think it is to come on a site and advertise for fun on the side. Admire you for staying with your ill wife?? Maybe you have another agenda why you stay with her....hmmmmmmm
Just my view...when you post your thoughts for others to read.. be prepared to hear various opinions :)
modgal write: Why is everyone so quick to judge? For all we know his wife might be accepting of him having extramarital relations and at least he hasnt lied and said he's single. I would NEVER go there with a married man but I also don't find it repulsive that he's trying
I think that his post was not well thought out before he began typing. Something a little more subdued may have gotten a better review. Some of the critisism has been very idealistic, and I believe the sentiment of 'Walk a mile in my shoes' applies here.
I agree with modgal that he has been upfront with his situation, and it is admirable that he is sticking with his wife, when many other spouses would have s*cked the bricks from the house in the vacuum left behind them.
Personally, (if this is a true account of the situation, and not a one-sided version) I wish both of them the best, and I hope none of us ever have to experience what they have had to.
BBGirly write: wtf! You are completely obtuse! Instead of posting here "advertising" yourself...go take care of your wife! Does the phrase, "for richer or for poorer, for sickness and in health" ring a bell to you?
wtf! You are completely obtuse! Instead of posting here "advertising" yourself...go take care of your wife! Does the phrase, "for richer or for poorer, for sickness and in health" ring a bell to you?
Treasure05 write: The time in the past when I allowed married men to speak to me, it was shortly apparent that the reason they're not "getting any", is because they've turned their wife off so badly---with boorish behavior & really REALLY bad s'ex--- she has literally closed herself off in self-defense. Just look at how he thinks a "quickie" is a good thing. I'm sure it just thrills his wife, being used as a receptacle. She has TMJ? I'd lock my jaw, too. After I bit him.
Ooooouuuuuuuuccccccchhhhhhhhhhhhh! Now that bites!
drewlovesbbw write: I find it interesting how I'm judged as evil. I love my wife and will stick with her forever. I just can't live without quality physical loving. Would you do the same in my place? Further more I'm in the "Fun On The Side" area. This would insinuate that we are all married or in LTR. So why are you here? Drew
Hey dude! I am just going to suggest (only a suggestion) that you maybe post on AFF? I don't think this post will sit well with some of the ladies here.
True we are reading your post in Fun on the Side, but when you checked out my profile I am glad to say it didn't say I was looking for any "encounters", so please don't bother contacting me. Thanks all the same, I am sure your wife would appreciate your love at home despite her health issues.
OMGosh... I read this yesterday and didn't even have the energy or words to comment... but I hadn't looked at his profile. He IS married... I agree... go take care of your wife... if you're THAT good... she should be a happy lady!