I would luv, luv, luv to be in love! Been on my own for 2 yrs now - - all is healed - - heart is open and ready for a new adventure.

So, somebody tell me -- where am I going?

Thank you, Cindi, gurl.....I know what I have to offer.....I'm pretty sick of kissing toads.............LMAO. And yes, if you're reading this and you think I mean you, you're probably right...eh hem.....um hmm!!

Best of luck to u Diva.... u are young and beautiful and I agree "he" will find u.... just keep being patient. Smiles, me

Yes, NEVA - - you are so right! I stopped looking - - I had my profile hid for quite a while. I'm still not actively "looking" - - especially on the net,'cause I just don't think it's gonna happen like that. But, I am just keeping my focus on my family and if it happens, it happens. It would be nice, but I have no complaints in my life so I will keep smiling and enjoying what I do have and not focus on what I don't.

I am finding out that looking can have you becoming a watchgirl just wait he'll come

N A D S ! ! If it wasn't for those darn earthquakes......but you can come ride out the next hurricane w/me ! !

You know what the answer is my sexxxy Diva. You live next to the wrong ocean. I'm here waiting for you and you know it, ya big tease!!

NEVER second guess your gut (some call it women's intuition) .. if you FEEL like it's wrong, it most likely is...

KB

Tiffie82
same thing happened to me sort of.was with my fella for 3 1/2 months and he says to me 'oh im meeting up with someone off the internet shes just a friend' next thing i know im dumped and hes havin a relation ship with her, so yes you had every right to be annoyed, and congrats on leavin him, the toad

TIFFIE - Always do what you feel is the right thing for you. No one really could say your decision was right or wrong, especially not knowing you guys. I will say this though, it's impossible to keep your "significant" other from speaking to others of the opposite sex. There's nothing wrong with people having friends and if you trust your man, why not? You may end up with a good friend as well. Now, is he sneaking off having "private conversations" or hanging up every time you walk in the room? That may leave room for questioning. HA! Girl - - you're young. Have fun. Do not sweat the small stuff!

I was wondering if you could help a young girl figure something out...
I was with someone for year and then he started to talk to other girls on the telphone, and when i made a comment that i didnt like it, he still did so, so i left, was it wrong of me to be upset with my boyfriend ( at the time) talking to other girls on the phone??

diva ... one of my favourite quotes by Cher ... "a girl can sit and wait for mr Right ... but theres nothing saying she cant have fun with Mr Wrong in the mean time" .... ;)

I am not looking and dont particularily care if I ever end up with someone ;) ... being single is being happy to me ... but I hope your Mr Right isnt too far away !! :)

Thanks for the words my friends. I'm technically "not looking", but hoping. Some days, I think - - I'm just gonna chill and the right one will cross my path. Then I think, damn that - - I'm not just gonna sit by and stagnate, so I think it's better to take the initiative and get out there. AND THEN I get sick of all the casual dating. So, I'm currently in the mind set of "saving it up....." HARDY HAR HAR for the right one. So, can I just say this: abstinence s-u-c-k-s! LMAO

hello

there is someone special in your future us good grls don't always finish last keep that in mind.
and its nice to meet you.

Heya Diva... Like Jack said , it will happen when you least expect it too. That is what happened for me. It has been a wild ride for the last few months. but hey it is well worth it. remember to keep smiling you never know who is watching

Aww...thanks GW - - that's sweet. I think the only place I'm going is crazy!! LOL Lack of....may have me on the brink!! HEE HEE

Laura - - I will definitely keep that in mind! Did you ever move?

Love from me too Diva...MWAAAAHHHH!!!

Your Mr Right will find you when you least expect it. He's out there somewhere and he'll be SOOO worth the wait.

~~*Hugs* from Jack xx~~

Where are you going? I hope that wherever you go that you meet a person who deserves you. That person must be gentle, loving, and caring. Just keep being the attractive and intelligent woman you've always seemed to be. I certainly wish only the best for you.

I love ya, too, Diva! But, I know you really want to meet a nice guy. I wish you all the best luck in finding "Mr. Right". And when you do find him, ask if he has an older brother for me! {giggle}