I've been a member of this site for about 8 months now and I've been wondering... Why is it that the first question most men ask is my bra size?
I know that I won't meet my prince charning on line...lol but please can't someone give me a chance to tell them more about myself? I'm an inteligent, kind woman but I can't seem to be able to talk to anyone who cares about more than the size of...well...I won't repeat myself..lol Ladies am I the only one having this type of problem?

Perhaps it is my background or maybe I spent too much time in biology labs but I know that breasts are the Secondary sexual characteristic.

Call me a purist - or a madman - but I'm going to have to go with the biological imperative and note only that the breasts draw the eye of the visuall-centric male.  Think of them as your own personal physical One-Liner or Opening statement.
However, some of us are wired completely different.  I would not care to diminish any woman's charms by nay-saying the beauty of the bosom but I think them more accentuation than foundation of a woman's appeal.

I use to be 418 lbs and my boobs are the same size now that I am 280lbs. They are much better looking I think. I'm a 44ddd.

I think we all know why; the kind of guy who asks that right away is looking for something you have too much class to give (at least, to guys of his ilk).

In a way I prefer that the guys just out & ask it so I know how they are right away & don't waste any more time on them, haha!

Ya know I think it is kinda funny that guys ask on here I mean all women of this site are going to have atleast a 38+ bust in inches, not to mention probably a large C cup and up.

Now what is bad is Men in general wanna see the huge fantastical chests, and here they think that if a woman has a large bust (not cup size) he has struck gold

I myself am a breast man but here it is more about what is inside the woman than her shape on the outside...although it does help our fantasies.

tummy and butt are very very important.

Its not just on this site though... its in life a lot of the time to. I have a friend who's boyfriend has been asking her if they can have a 3 way with me ever since he meet me cause of my size... Like I really would do something like that. YUCK! Shes my best friend... I don't want to see her naked and she don't want to see me naked and I am not about to touch her property... I know better than that. We are both to catty and jealous to share anything like that even one time.

Because a big percentage of men on here are looking for a bootie call and the only thing that is on their minds are how big your busom is. They think all BBWs are lonely and desperate, hence the reason they're here. Any guy who asks you about your bra size is not only classless, but a nimrod. Avoid them.

I never asked a woman this. do ya'll think i should. lol I guess it is a conversation starter. Just joking ladies, ask him his cup size see how he likes it.

Do you suppose they want to buy us lingerie as a sign of their affection? Ha ha!

My response is always along the lines of: "a whole lot bigger than anything needed to hold your brain sunshine!", or I ask them why that is important to then which generally ties them up in knots.

Let's face it, those guys are not the brightest, lol.

Definitely not. LOL!! Seems to be all they care about even if they say they don't. LOL!!