I'm sure that it is not just me because I have confirmed this topic with many friends. I am an attractive female with a positive outlook and very independent. My issue is that I don't get approached as much as I would like or either its by the ones who should not bother. Are men scared today to spark up conversation? What ever happened to actually asking someone out for a REAL date. I haven't been asked on a good date since I was about 10 years old. And he was man enough at 11
The "desperation" look is a phrase having to do with combination of things. What I meant was that some women just flit from situation to situation without giving time and consideration for things to develop. The look of a woman (or man) who HAS to have a date for every weekend. I suppose it's hard to put into words but I hope you get the general idea. No, Jenny I don't think you have that LOOK at all. You're a very attractive woman and, I'm sure, that you'll never be desperate.
Well now lets see i use to work at a few night clubs and as for mg guessing that it is easy to tell im sorry but i have yet to find that. Now the reason why guys would tend to back off would be for a few reasons but the main and number one reason would be fear of getting shot down. Now this is not right but there has been soo many times where as i was asked to ask someone out for a guy or to find out if they have a boyfriend
The issue you're having with not being "approached" enough might have to do with several factors. Where are you going to try to meet dates? If it's at a bar, nightclub or the like then you should have a good idea. Are you a nice person or do you constantly express an "attitude"? Do you bathe regularly? Men can tell when a female is "looking"; desperation is easily identifiable. Try to be a nice person and be open to meeting people. I know that I really notice when a woman is open, friendly, polite