I'm sure that it is not just me because I have confirmed this topic with many friends. I am an attractive female with a positive outlook and very independent. My issue is that I don't get approached as much as I would like or either its by the ones who should not bother. Are men scared today to spark up conversation? What ever happened to actually asking someone out for a REAL date. I haven't been asked on a good date since I was about 10 years old. And he was man enough at 11

The "desperation" look is a phrase having to do with combination of things. What I meant was that some women just flit from situation to situation without giving time and consideration for things to develop. The look of a woman (or man) who HAS to have a date for every weekend. I suppose it's hard to put into words but I hope you get the general idea. No, Jenny I don't think you have that LOOK at all. You're a very attractive woman and, I'm sure, that you'll never be desperate.

well jenny not really just it is not somthing that shows. but if your are coming too strong to more then one guy in the club well there ya go.

Well now lets see i use to work at a few night clubs and as for mg guessing that it is easy to tell im sorry but i have yet to find that. Now the reason why guys would tend to back off would be for a few reasons but the main and number one reason would be fear of getting shot down. Now this is not right but there has been soo many times where as i was asked to ask someone out for a guy or to find out if they have a boyfriend

The issue you're having with not being "approached" enough might have to do with several factors. Where are you going to try to meet dates? If it's at a bar, nightclub or the like then you should have a good idea. Are you a nice person or do you constantly express an "attitude"? Do you bathe regularly? Men can tell when a female is "looking"; desperation is easily identifiable. Try to be a nice person and be open to meeting people. I know that I really notice when a woman is open, friendly, polite