Looking around the site,there are so many good and kindly people here. But I don't know it is helpful for me. This site is as the others. We need to upgrade membership to email other members. I wonder if this site is worth to upgrade. Thanks in advance for everyone who offer your opinion.

Depends on how you handle not being winked/emailed at. If you get 50 responses, sure it's worth it. When you get nada, you might not think so. The ironic thing is that I've gotten more winks by not being a paying member than I did as a paying one. Then when someone cool contacts you, you gotta buy a membership to talk to them. It's either a blessing or crock. Depends on what side of the spectrum you are I guess.

Hi bigpretty, I was on this site for 3 months before someone winked at me. I decited to pay for the upgrade just to answer her and see what would happen. This lady is not close to me but we do talk now. So to answer your question, it was worth it for me( I am talking to several people but not many close enough to date) so give it a try.---Tom