the two two things that put women off when i ask them out(hell they pretty much ridicule me)is, i'm unemployed and that thanks to being bullied for most of my school life my education is severely lacking(i have gained knowledge in various vocational areas since then but they don't seem to care). does it or would it matter to any of you ladies?

Those are things that matter somewhat to me.

Firstly, if you are unemployed, how do you plan to fund any dating you may do? Are you going to expect to do everything and each pay for their own, etc.

Secondly, if you're looking for a long term relationship, how are you planning to support your home?

I guess I'm more sensitive to this because my ex was unemployed so much of the time and it made me feel like it was my job to support him... and I don't want to do that again.

Education is nice, but knowing how to conduct yourself in social situations has nothing to do with an education. I know many people who have college degrees, but are socially ignorant.

So... just keep that in mind when you talk to women. They are immediately going to wonder what you are going to expect from them if you are unemployeed.

Just my 2 cents...

yeah the vocational stuff is to help get me a job. as for why i'm unemployed, i don't know. i apply for work on regular basis, not one job i have applied has shown the slightest bit of interest in me.