i really appreciate your posting your photo for us to see your studliness!
i do have a couple of suggestions that will possible give you a better advantage, from a woman's perspective:
1. don't put as your main photo a pic of you with a beer, another woman (unless she's your daughter, and is not over 7!), a nudie photo on the wall behind you, or a car. the car phto can be in the photo album (and sometimes a motorcycle is cool to see first, but it still should be a large enuf photo to see you pretty well)
2 a really good headshot is easier for us to see in those small pics they show initially. it can be a full body, if it is big enuf the management will reduce the thumbnail to a headshot (i think), then we can click to see the whole glorious you!
once again, i want to thank you for putting your photos up. i guarantee you, there are many, many women, myself included, that won't (usually) email someone without a photo. (he'd have to have a truly awesome profile).
i'd also like to thank all the men who have paid for their memberships. i can't help feeling like a man who isn't willing to shelve out the nominal fee for membership, and depends on the women to do the spending, is probably like that in other areas of his life. so, thanks for that, members!
The co-worker thing was pointed out to me as some people were goofing around on the different sites, and really ragging on the "losers" who have to go on-line to find friends or dates. You know the type, the same ones who in school sat on the cool guy area and made fun of the geeks, nerds, band buddies, dramaf**s, etc. As cool as I am, I haven't told many of my friends about this site and that I'm on it because my friends have enough stupid stuff I do to tease me with out this too. Though they do know my penchant for the rounder, softer female form.
Unless the websight in question jacks up their fee and twenty dollars is alot of money to some--its not that they dont want to pay the fee but, as in my case, 20 dollars is a tank of gas or my water bill or cell phone bill....
And yes I work full time well above minimum wage level--but bills, rent etc., not much left over
easygoing157 write: Just because I dont have credit cards I find it hard to pay for these sites, DoAnyGirlsDateEasyRecycledGuysATHOmeToMAkeInL ke.COMeontalktome
Hey easy... ATM / DEBIT cards work too. If you have a VISA logo on your Bank ATM /DEBIT card... you can use it as a Visa credit card... I know ;-) It worked for me. Cheers!
true be it- those were all good points steve. I stand corrected!
Though, if its a matter of a coworker finding you- they are also on the same site so it kind of equals out. I dunno, I understand though. I've been found before and have found family members which is kind of weird.
SteveNads write: It has been pointed out to me that some people don't have their photos posted because they don't want co-workers to stumble across them. Also, some people have been harrassed by others on these sites so they don't post, but if you ask them for a picture, they will gladly send you one. I have had a couple ladies do just that for those reasons. And for the record, it's both male and female that don't post pictues. Check out the winks, there is one that asks for you to send a pic. I'm guessing that it must have been reqested or it wouldn't have been on the list. When I first joined this site, it wasn't on the wink list. I know there are some jerkoffs who only want to get photos of ladies in whatever pose, but that's the price you pay when you go out in public. These are probably the same guys who make the rude comments in a bar as you walk by, or keep thier eyes glued on your chest if they see any clevage. Something I learned in an AA meeting I was forced to attend once(another story, later)was that when you let people get you mad, you are giving them power over you to control your feelings. Just remember it's mind over matter, i don't mind because they don't matter.
It has been pointed out to me that some people don't have their photos posted because they don't want co-workers to stumble across them. Also, some people have been harrassed by others on these sites so they don't post, but if you ask them for a picture, they will gladly send you one. I have had a couple ladies do just that for those reasons. And for the record, it's both male and female that don't post pictues. Check out the winks, there is one that asks for you to send a pic. I'm guessing that it must have been reqested or it wouldn't have been on the list. When I first joined this site, it wasn't on the wink list. I know there are some jerkoffs who only want to get photos of ladies in whatever pose, but that's the price you pay when you go out in public. These are probably the same guys who make the rude comments in a bar as you walk by, or keep thier eyes glued on your chest if they see any clevage. Something I learned in an AA meeting I was forced to attend once(another story, later)was that when you let people get you mad, you are giving them power over you to control your feelings. Just remember it's mind over matter, i don't mind because they don't matter.
Trick- That is SOOO CUTE!!!! I LOVE animals, I can only imagine how adorable that would be to own an animal like that as a pet!!
As for the photos- I agree to a certain extent. I have to say at least we get a general idea of who we are speaking with regardless what kind of picture, right?
Now for the men that have no photo or say ask me for it- thats something that gets under my skin- we are on a website where we should feel free to share how we look. You need not be insecure about it here. Its too easy to get a picture on the internet. If ya don't have a digital camera or web camera thats hardly an excuse! get your tangeable photos developed and order them on a cd too! Done and done!
Trickbuzzer write: Gawd... I think I skeerededed him. LMAO Seriously.. goats are fun. I have actually hand raised a few when my step-dad was alive. Just can't let them in the house.. they'll eat up your house plants....and everything else. LOL But they are sooooooooo cute. Did ya know... that it is only the billies that smell? It's true. You can have a whole herd of nannies and only have a slight goaty smell.. When ya introduce a billy... thats when the smell starts... They actually pee on their beards...ewwww I think its a kind of "goat cologne" LOL.. We had one named Andy that was bottle fed... he loved to go for rides in the truck... and I could stand in the yard and call him... Aaaaaandyyyyyyyyy.. and he would run across the yard and jump into my arms. He was so cute.
Gawd... I think I skeerededed him. LMAO
Seriously.. goats are fun. I have actually hand raised a few when my step-dad was alive. Just can't let them in the house.. they'll eat up your house plants....and everything else. LOL But they are sooooooooo cute. Did ya know... that it is only the billies that smell? It's true. You can have a whole herd of nannies and only have a slight goaty smell.. When ya introduce a billy... thats when the smell starts... They actually pee on their beards...ewwww I think its a kind of "goat cologne" LOL.. We had one named Andy that was bottle fed... he loved to go for rides in the truck... and I could stand in the yard and call him... Aaaaaandyyyyyyyyy.. and he would run across the yard and jump into my arms. He was so cute.
oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. otayyy. hehehehe I like goats. they are cute and funny and really loveable when they are hand fed raised... and they don't taste half baaaaaAaaaaaad either. LOL
Sorry.. I couldn't resist
How do go goats go over??? Hmmmm I guess one hoof at a time.... ohhhhhh you meant goatee"s... silly me. ;-) I think it should be up to the guy. If thats part of who he is then so be it. Personally, as long as a person keeps their beard, mustache, and goatee neatly trimmed (and doesnt have debris from previous meals lodged in it ;-))... I think it looks nice.
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