Are big guys at the bottom of the dating pool? That is the question I've found myself pondering so much as of late. It seems like everywhere I look, especially on a lot of "online" dating sites it just seems like big guys are always specifically mentioned as who they don't want.

Heck just today on a local radio station here in Atlanta one host wanted people to call in to say their "worst" online or blind dating experience. Some lady who says she'll date any man who's nice and with a good job said a friend hooked her up with a guy. Well she went on the date, but she said the guy was nice, but "obese". She then went on to say she'll date an ugly, short, or etc guy, but she doesn't go big guys because she doesn't find them "attractive". Obviously there is a serious flaw in her logic since if you think someone is "ugly" then they can't possibly be attractive to you.

To get back to my topic though when did being a big guy become the bottom of the dating totem poll? Now save us the everyone has their preference comment because I and most people know that, but in a time where it seems big girls are at least becoming more accepted why isn't the same thing true of big men ... well at least those of us who aren't rich, powerful, and/or famous.

I will add to my own post and say that I do think where you live, what race you are, and what age range you're in plays a part too in my discussion. Someplaces like Southern CA, Southern FL, and some areas known for "attractive" women will be much harder on women than men. I think race places into too because in some races being a bigger sized person is more accepted than others. Age also plays a part too because I find women 40+ are more open to dating us bhm than some of their younger counterparts. I think younger women have it a little easier than younger men ... even if it is for the wrong reason, i.e. some younger guys pursuing young bbw's because they think they are an "easy" prey.

I agree with Kat. I like a man that has some meat on his bones. As far as large men being at the bottom of the totem pole, I could not disagree more. I feel that larger men are more accepted than larger women, but that is just from my experience living here in So. Cal. I think that larger women are not accepted as much here. It's nice to have sites such as these though where there are men that actually find me somewhat attractive.

Personally for me I prefer a guy with some meat on his bones...no sticks for me!