I actually have a problem with men liking us plus sized ladies. I havent found one genuine guy who likes big girls. It makes dating horrible, if you can find a date. I'm more likely to find a guy friend and not a guy to date. And then the ones that I do find only want one thing.....typical!
Dear Ladies... if you look at all the great paintings throughout time... virtually all the ladies in the paintings are large women... We artists know what real beauty is... A large woman is softer, more sexy than those skinny ladies that the ad agencies keep displaying. I saw one ad recently for ladies undies... and all the models were ... very pleasingly plump... and they were sooooo much more sexy to me than the skinny "fashion models." I only wish one of you in N. GA would show some interest in this older man. I would love to cuddle with someone... smell her hair... caress her.. feel her warmth against mine... feel her lips on mine... and ever so much more... Yes, ladies... you are beautiful... just hang in there and forget those stupid men who don't know how to relate to any woman, regardless of size. Unfortunately, that is most men! Anyone interested in an ageing, tender, sensuous artist - who will make an "art" out of being intimate?
when I asked an average sized guy what he likes about larger sized women he said " they have more soul, are more genuine and honest and laugh more".
i've wondered the same. i've dated an average sized man who couldn't explain it so we put it under the fetish category lol. he just said nothing made him feel sexier than seeing a full figured woman lying down naked knowing he was going to get to get to touch every inch of her.
this same man said the size of the woman's mmm sexual organs turned him on too.
I beieve that everyone is beautiful. Plus size women have a zest for life, great looking men are attracted to that zest, as well as our inner and outter beauty. Big is beautiful, we don't tell ourselves this message often enough, why wouldn't great looking men want us?
I don't find that to be a problem! Of course I like tall, lanky men and attractiveness is an individual determination. I just hate it when I only get hit on by men closer to my daughters age than mine.