Another "newbie" here . . . from CT and already enjoying myself! I just wish people would post their pics w/their profiles and spend a little time making their profiles interesting. OK, so I went a bit overboard w/my little novella but communication is VERY important to me. I'm not shallow and looks definitely are not the deciding factor but let's get real, we're visual creatures . . . especially you men!! I want to see you and know something about you and what you're looking for before I'm going to say hi!! Just a thought . . .