Ok so I am not that hot but have long hair and I am definitely not gay. Like it has been posted here I am confident with my masculinity. Maybe it's the guys with short hair that aren't so confident if they think that hair length makes a man.
Of course they do Rossy ... just that seems the trend these days is shorter, not like in my Hey day in the 80's of long haired guys ... :)
LatinDancer21... wow ... for one, when I think masculine the LAST thing I think of is Military, My guy is from NYC and for most of his adult life he had long hair AND he is Latino and dances Salsa and FAR from gay or girlie ... personally, I think thats just in built in military training, anything other than short back and sides is gay ... how narrow minded.
I would actually like to see a military Marine guy up against one of my long haired rock guitar friends in a one on one physical fight ... I some how think the long hair might just scrape through in that instance ... never judge a book by its hair :P
Hold on here, I have to say, My picture in my profile was taken about a year and a half maybe 2 years ago. Since age 10 - 14 i had long hair. then from 17 - 22 i had long hair. Then cut may hair cos i was just board and now im growing my hair out again.
I am not girly, nor am Gayish! Long hair is what some like to call a fad, or tread/ life style. It also lets people know what kinda of music one likes. You can tell by the way its taken care of, how groomed it is, if its dyed, natural color, Etc etc.
I think the comment that guys with long hair is gayish/ Girlish is Rather Offensive. Maybe you think it is girl ish becuase you hang around with the wrong crowd, or only hand around with the girlish ones. which ever that group may be.
Now i do admit 10 - 15% people/ Guys with long hair are more guess the word is prone, to be in touch with their feminin side. This is not such a bad thing might i add, nor does this make us Gayish. It means were able to understand when people are having sensitive moments in their life.
This s very bold here and im going out on a limb.
Just like women and short hair, women with short hair tend to be butchs rather then submissive like their long hair counter parts.
Men that have long hair tend to be more in touch with them selves then their short har counter parts.
Look at Jeszus!! He had lon hair! He was not gay! Im not a religious freak nor do i goto church on weekends. Just pointing out facts here.
Look at willynelson, kirk cobane, Billy bob thorton, Chech and chong, Garth brooks used to have long hair. General stonewall E. Jackson when he was growing up.
Your perception on guys with long hair = Gayish and girlyish is rather an Unexplored concept in your little noodle. Don't mean to sound offensive :)Their are hundresd of people in the United states that we idolize, not becuase of the long hair but, because .. maybe the statues they have achived, their looks, their wealth, their intellagance. (sorry poor spelling)
I think the question is do you really want Fabio by your side. I??ve knew a couple guys with long hair (used to like that kind of a kick) but the last one I knew turn me off completely. But hey, it is just my experience. ??
LatinDancer21 write: My best guess would be because usaully long haired men are on the girly/gay side
More masculine short haired guys tend to like real women with real bodies
Having spent half my life married to a man with long hair (think I saw it short once in 20 years), and having worked several years with gay males, I will
emphatically state that one has absolutely nothing to do with the other!
My spouse's hobbies included getting his hands and nails very dirty working on automobile engines,computers and woodworking. Oh yeah..his all time favorite past time was chasing and catching women of all shapes and sizes!
I think a man with long hair proclaims loudly and clearly "I am at ease with myself and comfortable with my masculinity. I am free to set my own style and define my own self. Society doesn't own me;I don't have to be a sheeple and conform to what others think or do. Wearing my hair whatever length I choose to is not harming anyone. I am secure in my identity and choose to wear it long."