How do you feel about your partner having "t*ys"? Men are you intimidated by them? Women do you tell, and if so at what point in the relationship? Just wondering!

T*ys are great. You may want to let him control them at first. If he is holding the reigns he may feel more comfortable. (We both use t*ys on each other and we love it)

I think as long as you're not using them as a substitute for being with your partner, then there shouldn't be a problem. But everyone has their personel preferences, and it is best if you can be open and honest and talk about what you like and don't like.

As for being intimidated, I think as long as it isn't the size of your forearm, and that's what you need to be satisfied, a guy shouldn't be intimidated. lol. Of course, like I said, everyone is different and it is best to talk about it.