I'm too big for the general population and too small for most people looking for BBWs. Is anyone looking for someone who is just right? I am 5ft6 and 230pounds, I live in Sydney Australia, any thoughts about this? Other's in the same situation?
Seriously?? wow :( Me? I'm new to all of this, I didn't know what a bbw or ssbbw was till I googled chubby dating lol. I hope you girls find someone. :( You're all very pretty. Be positive I'm sure the right man is out there. :) I'm about 280 lbs or so, but I haven't weighed myself in a while. I don't know If I would be considered too small or a bbw.
Where is the actual person in all this is my question.
Sure, I like a curvy woman but every woman is a person just like every man. we need to stop thinking in terms of weight or size or what ever.
if my dream woman happens to be big or small or in the middle, who cares? she would be my dream woman due to her personality cause thats the one I will be speaking to and going out with and live my life with.
A curvy body is just a bonus if that happens but not something I absolutley have to have. It would be redicilous to think any other way when it comes to a person with feelings and dreams just like my self.
We all (men and women) want to be seen as who we are on the inside and not the outside that all magazines and media trying hard to make us belive to earn money on our insecurity.
Dont belive the hype and be your self and you WILL meet a man who see you for who you are and not for your weight, size, bosom or butt.
I am trying to be open minded, but my interests are mostly in the chubby/rubenesque range.....hard to know where our preferences come from....they seem to be inborn...
I have the same problem. I'm 5'7" 220 lbs and I was 240 and even then I was told that I wasn't big enough for these type of sites. Getting tired of it all.
hey guys,guess I'll preach to the choir. recently lost some weight for health reasons,5'6 was 270 lovely lbs currently 205 lbs, I keep telling myself that I'm still fat & lovely,but it seems that I'm not fat enough for the SA community.
I know exactly how you feel. I was going to BBW events for a while several years ago, until one of the guys told me I was too small for most of the men there. Not a good place to be!
Of coarse there is hope. The right guy is out there. I have found that guys who like a little more cushion, but also live active lives would enjoy being with a girl of your body type. I hope you are encouraged! Just keep doing what you need to do for yourself and he will come along.
