Too Big, Too Small, Stuck in the Middle Clubs by weight

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View author's info Author posted on Jul 26, 2012 at 00:38

I'm too big for the general population and too small for most people looking for BBWs. Is anyone looking for someone who is just right? I am 5ft6 and 230pounds, I live in Sydney Australia, any thoughts about this? Other's in the same situation?

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View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2015 at 16:12

Where is the actual person in all this is my question.

Sure, I like a curvy woman but every woman is a person just like every man. we need to stop thinking in terms of weight or size or what ever.

if my dream woman happens to be big or small or in the middle, who cares? she would be my dream woman due to her personality cause thats the one I will be speaking to and going out with and live my life with.

A curvy body is just a bonus if that happens but not something I absolutley have to have. It would be redicilous to think any other way when it comes to a person with feelings and dreams just like my self.

We all (men and women) want to be seen as who we are on the inside and not the outside that all magazines and media trying hard to make us belive to earn money on our insecurity.

Dont belive the hype and be your self and you WILL meet a man who see you for who you are and not for your weight, size, bosom or butt.

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Torulv

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View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2015 at 07:44

It seems these sites are more geared towards SSBBW's

Which is great, but what about us? :(

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View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2015 at 07:42

Yup, 5' 4" 215 I'm starting to wonder if I was just meant to be single.

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View author's info posted on Jul 31, 2015 at 12:16

I am trying to be open minded, but my interests are mostly in the chubby/rubenesque range.....hard to know where our preferences come from....they seem to be inborn...

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View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2014 at 04:22

I have the same problem. I'm 5'7" 220 lbs and I was 240 and even then I was told that I wasn't big enough for these type of sites. Getting tired of it all.

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View author's info posted on Jul 02, 2014 at 20:16

Hi, my name is Daniel i,m 5'9" 400 pounds

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View author's info posted on Jun 03, 2014 at 09:27

hey guys,guess I'll preach to the choir.
recently lost some weight for health reasons,5'6 was 270 lovely lbs currently 205 lbs, I keep telling myself that I'm still fat & lovely,but it seems that I'm not fat enough for the SA community.

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View author's info posted on Apr 20, 2014 at 00:02

You seem like quite a catch. Prayers that you find someone.

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View author's info posted on Mar 02, 2014 at 21:00

I know exactly how you feel. I was going to BBW events for a while several years ago, until one of the guys told me I was too small for most of the men there. Not a good place to be!

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View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2014 at 13:43

I know exactly what you mean...

I am 5"6 and 206 lbs. too big, too small.. and by the way, which option do we select for our own profiles?

Alot of these men enjoy high level activities ..

How am i suppose to keep up? even at my weight!

Not being able to join in = one lonely bbw.

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View author's info posted on Nov 12, 2013 at 04:31

Definately know how you feel. Im 5"7' and 240 lbs. I fewl like i dont have a spot in the game.

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View author's info posted on Jul 19, 2013 at 14:19

Ur very beautiful. l would like to know u.

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View author's info posted on Sep 05, 2012 at 02:09

you look awesome

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View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2012 at 10:39

Of coarse there is hope. The right guy is out there. I have found that guys who like a little more cushion, but also live active lives would enjoy being with a girl of your body type. I hope you are encouraged! Just keep doing what you need to do for yourself and he will come along.

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