I have the same problem.  I'm 5'7" 220 lbs and I was 240 and even then I was told that I wasn't big enough for these type of sites.  Getting tired of it all.

Hi, my name is Daniel i,m 5'9" 400 pounds

hey guys,guess I'll preach to the choir.
recently lost some weight for health reasons,5'6 was 270 lovely lbs currently 205 lbs, I keep telling myself that I'm still fat & lovely,but it seems that I'm not fat enough for the SA community.

You seem like quite a catch. Prayers that you find someone.

I know exactly how you feel.  I was going to BBW events for a while several years ago, until one of the guys told me I was too small for most of the men there.  Not a good place to be!

I know exactly what you mean...

I am 5"6 and 206 lbs. too big, too small.. and by the way, which option do we select for our own profiles?

Alot of these men enjoy high level activities ..

How am i suppose to keep up? even at my weight!

Not being able to join in = one lonely bbw.

Definately know how you feel. Im 5"7' and 240 lbs. I fewl like i dont have a spot in the game.