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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 18:57

Do you prefer getting a message from a woman that has read your ad and sends you a reply? Or is it you that would prefer sending out the first message.

Just wondering...
Do you prefer getting a message from a woman that has read your ad and sends you a reply? Or is it you that would prefer sending out the first message.

Just wondering...



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Posted on Thu, Apr 06, 2006 00:29

I'll send a message if someone posts a really magnificent profile and/or is extremely beautiful. Most times I just wait and see who might be interested though.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 03, 2005 06:29

I send out all kinds of them. :) Some answer, some don't. I don't take it personally though. It's not a big deal. I'm a cool girl and if they don't want to know it, that's ok too. :) To each his own.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2005 07:50

The right woman contacting me first or vice versa? As long as we get the ball rolling I don't care who pushes first. However, it is an ego booster when you read "YOU'VE GOT MAIL".

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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 21:59

i like being contcted first



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Posted on Tue, Nov 08, 2005 18:06

I do much better when the woman contacts me. I have never contacted a woman that was interested in me.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 08, 2005 10:46

I love it when a woman reaches out to exchange e-mail's or just to give a wink ,you just never know what can happen

  


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Posted on Sun, Nov 06, 2005 18:31

KW -- dang, I've been throwing myself atcha... do I need to get an flashing sign with an arrow or what?!?!? LOL ;)

KB



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Posted on Sat, Nov 05, 2005 14:37

I think it shows *alot* about a woman when she takes the effort to make "first contact." Knowing firsthand how hard it can be, I make sure that I reply to anyone who writes me, as I would hope would be done for me.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 15:50

I find that a woman making initial contact can be very sexy! It also makes me feel good knowing someone is interested in me!
I find that a woman making initial contact can be very sexy! It also makes me feel good knowing someone is interested in me!



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Posted on Wed, Oct 26, 2005 20:28

I would definitely prefer for her to send the first message rather than wink. I mean if she's interested in me it'd help to know what about my profile caught her attention or why she think we might be a fit.
I would definitely prefer for her to send the first message rather than wink. I mean if she's interested in me it'd help to know what about my profile caught her attention or why she think we might be a fit.