In reply to darkdixie's question-
It sounds like he likes you... so ask already. Ask him if he wants you as his girlfriend or to date for a while and see where it goes. Even if his reply is that he dosnt like you that way at least you know and you can get on with your life. It sounds like he might want you as a freind at least (most guys I know wouldnt waste their time on the phone with someone they dont like as a person at lease) so asking if he is attracted and wants to take it further isnt going to hurt anything.
well darkdixie, their are multiple ways you can do this.
you can call him up and just ask him if he likes u, of course his response is going to be yes. In that whick you reply how much? if he says alot your in. remember with in these walls you heart might jump dependsing on what he says.
However, if your heart does not jump, skip a beat, or even stop for a breif moment, or even speed up increidably. do not fall for what he says. Its seems like yes, He is into you but, it seems like somethings iffy.
Thats way one.
way two. Invite him over and have a serious talk with him. tell him how you feel, kiss him passionatly. If the kiss is fake, everything else will be fake.
Just bone the bastared, see if hes acts differently after words. See if his actions/ attuide towards you changes. thats really the only way to know for sure, however if his attuide is the same Except more... lovable. you know you have your man.
I really like having a section where its just people in their 20's. I have some issues that I know that you guys would understand.
People have already wrote about how they like younger or older guys/girls but this is different. Yes the guy is younger but that has nothing to do with the mess going through my head. I like him and I believe that he likes me but I have no idea how to really tell and how to go after him in such a way that he is not turned off. I tried my moms way and waited but with us out of the dark ages I really cant wait for the guy to make the first move. Ok here's the story:
We talk at work and on the phone for about a hour at a time on our days off. But he is a seasonal worker becaues he plays on his college football team and does not have time to work all the time. So we dont see each other that much. The last time we went out to eat after work he did that " I need to yawn" and put his arms around me.
Than the other night I went to say bye becaues he wanted me to stop by before I went home and we ended up talking for about a hour. I called him tonight to see if he wanted to go to Disneyland tomorrow and he was hanging out with his friends but still would not let me off the phone. He tried to make me part of what was happening.
With all the things happening I think he likes me but I really want to know so I can move on if not. Other than coming out and asking him (I dont think I have enough self esteem for that) how would I go about finding out if he like me? Please I really need help.
Hi fun! I don't have any bad stories about the site but no good ones either. I've talked a little to a couple of people but I haven't found anyone that I have a lot in common with to talk to on a regular basis. Mostly people a good bit older than I. Then again I'm not online a lot. I hope everyone else here is having good luck with it.