Hey Everyone, As you all know I am new to this site. So I have no idea how these forums really work.

But I do have a question, why is that men are so afraid of voluptuous, lucious, sensual, seductive, plus size women.

I mean reallly why are men so scarce?

Can anyone answer me this simple questions?

Awaiting your replies.

It seems to me that the women just don't want a local guy or something. Here I am in south MS and noone here will talk to me. I have had women from FL to Canada talk to me(some I have become chat buddies with) but yet the women close enough to date don't respond. go figure

hi there we're not all afraid of you. i personally love bigger women, they just think i'm in it for s*x because i'm so honest about how i feel.

Same for me here in Orlando. I don't know how to find any BBW's here. Where do you find BBW's looking for 21yo men, in a city of clubs and warehouses? I can't win!

I'm all about dating BBW. I've been looking in San Antonino, TX, but haven't had much luck finding many women online from the area.

I knew Dee was a special lady.

What a topic.

I believe good things come in large packages. As for me, I prefer large curvacious females. They are secure and no what they want. I don't like to see ribs. I have fettish with large women who where sexy underclothes.

Anyone in Westminster, MD., lets become pen pal

Dee,

I agree with you 100%! It doesnt matter what size anyone is. Finding someone can be very hard. I am shy at first. Its difficult for me to walk up to a woman and introduce myself. However once I have met someone, watchout!
I love all kinds of women. Big, small. It doesnt matter. And if I like a larger woman, I would not be afraid to admit that. Afterall, I am a big guy and its not a sin to love someone who isnt a model.

Ok, really, can we *please* stop picking on the men?

As I type, there are lovely honest men out there, complaining to their buddies about the games women play with them, or how they always get the "best friend" role.

The simple truth of the matter is that dating isn't that easy, no matter what your size. I have one friend who is an amazing person, normal sized, bright, funny, compassionate, etc. NONE of us have a clue why she is single. Heck, after he met her, my new bf asked me whi she was single and started trying to think of people he knew that would be a good match.

My point is, dating is a gamble. Sometime you hit it lucky, other times, you don't. The men aren't scarce....and they aren't all deceptive, liars, married, etc. It's just with how different everyone is as a person, it can sometimes take awhile to find the one you click with.

send some men over here that like us big girls seems we are very short of them

Now sweetie... what fun is there in that? lol

well I can't speak for anyone except myself(obviously) but we(men) are out here and I for one am not afraid to approach a larger woman. I have caught crap all my life because I like a bigger woman that knows she is, is good with it and likes and knows how to use what was given her ! Thank you and hope I offended noone, I was trying to be g-pg rated. kidding

Welcome to the community! There are a lot of great people here so jump in post so that they can see your personality shine through. As far as men not liking larger women, well you have come to the right place! There are lots and lots of men who prefer a larger woman for whatever reason. Unfortunately, not all men are open enough to publically acknowlege that fact. But if they aren't, then that is THEIR problem, not yours! Be proud of who you are and let that show... men will be drawn to that. But in my experience, I have found lots of great men who love a large woman so don't give up! Kew