OK - ok.. I was just wondering why there are SOOOO many men on here (and so many other sites) that dont post picutres? IT just makes me wonder - what do they have to hide from? Are they for real? or hiding in shame they dont want people too see that they are looking for a bbw? Sorry men with no photo's just make me a little on edge..
Does anyone agree with me?
Well The reason that they(men) might not have a photo could be several reasons. 5) They might be so handsome that the camera wont work due to overload.(4)NASA could not retask the Hubble to take a photo. (3) They are a Blood sucking vampire and can not have their photo taken. (2) They are afraid they might get profile photo mached to their "Americas Most Wanted" photo's. (1) Afraid their wives and girlfreinds might see them on this site!
When I'm browsing through the site, I don't even read the entries without pics. If you won't show your face I'm not interested, and I know a lot of men and women feel the same way. It doesn't matter to me whether a man is handsome or not.There are plenty of men who are attractive for many other reasons than their looks, but I still want to know who I'm talking to.
It is up to the individual person whether or not they will post a photo..however, in my opinion, I believe it is because they are married in the vast majority of cases.
I have never considered myself photogenic, however, I do post photos here because I am here to MEET someone, not hide behind my computer. If someone has a general idea of what my appearance is, and still finds themself vaguely interested, it is a place to start. I have always been told I "look better in person"..LOL!
So, as far as men not posting photos, ultimately they will not get the responses they want because women do want at least an idea of how you look, but for me, I don't judge a person solely on their looks, that would be very stupid. It is the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Some think I'm beautiful, some think I'm average, some find me less than attractive, but without the posted photo, they would have no idea.
So, guys, do us all a favour and post at least one. You don't have to look like Brad, or Johnny, just yourself. It's enough for us.
From my own experience I tend to believe that the majority of men who don't have a picture on here are hiding something. No, not all, but enough of a majority that I won't take the chance and write back. I don't care if someone I make friends with is married, ugly, or has a horn growing out his nose... but if you act like you're hiding something then I want nothing to do with you.
The same can probably be said for women who don't post their picture either.
I too am reluctant to respond to someone who doesn't have a photo posted. Some men will say "will send photo if asked" and due to the nature of their jobs, friends, family, etc., they are reluctant to show the world what they look like.
Me? Hey, I believe in a photo, humans are such visual creatures and you would be lying to yourself if you didn't say that a certain photo didn't catch your eye.
You can email and chat with anyone to get a feel for them, but for most of us it's going to be that physical attraction which is either going to capture or reject our attention.
I give them a chance to send me a photo, if not, oh well. NEXT!
Well if you search the womens profiles just as many as them are without a photo... So does that mean the people here who said men were hiding from their wife would also be willing to say the females are hiding from their husbands? I think it works both ways.
Ro me it doesnt matter if they have a photo or not, if it bothers me no photo, i simply pass it by. Simple! And not all men are hiding. Im sure there are a lot of good guys here. So if there is no photo and you want one, there ids a wink for that or simply pass them by. Sometimes a profile is catchy enough to not need a photo. And online dating is still scary to a lot of people, with all the bad news you hear... I can understand why some are shy to post a pic. im also sure a lot of people are here cheating too. i also know i tend to ramble haha so if you got this far thanks for reading